Should a guy tell a girl he likes her if she's in a relationship? (Page 3)

[Coulis]

Yes you should. The reason is because you're just going to die anyway if you keep it inside and if she's really dedicated to the other person it really doesn't matter what you tell her.

[tupacs_only_wife]

Oohhhh now that, yeah don't do that. You'll get flat out rejected and you'll also get some juicy beef with her partner.

[katiesmuff]

Yes he or she should do that. It lets her know your real feelings and who knows what is going to happen with the current relatlionship.

[Avicenna]

Absolutely not. It's very awkward for her to deal with that, especially if she's someone she's in regular contact with, plus the boyfriend may take exception to him telling her that.

[Avicenna]

* you're in regular contact with

[Qdbrown]

All is fair and love and war. Many women can be wooed away from a subpar lover. Happens millions of times per day around the globe. Especially in the West.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Love is a wonderful thing & I always say if you love someone or like someone let them know however she’s in a relationship so respect that & do the simplest thing of them all, move on.

[spartan55]

Fuck no, how is this even a question? Would you want some clown disrespecting your relationship like that?

[PinkMichae]

I can't understand any of these people saying yes or what's the worst that can happen. They are so selfish or just immature.

[Mamaganja]

Not if she is happy with the person she’s with. Best to take some time, find out if she’s happy in her current relationship and if she isn’t, befriend her, get to know her and then pounce.

[Becky316]

I think a guy should respect the relationship, telling me he wants to "get with me" may be flattering but I then have to limit situations where I run into him. Great, more work for me, thanks! (Sarcasm)

[MysteriousDarkness]

The more positive of a relationship she has I believe the less you want her being happy with someone else if you tell her.
The more toxic her relationship is the more help she will need to better herself before getting into another relationship.

[Jamie05rhs]

No. Not unless she's in an abusive relationship, and not unless you're willing to be there for her and rescue her and not abandon her if she does work up the courage to leave him. Otherwise you're just a huge asshole.

[Anonymous]

No, nothing good can come of it. It's best to respect her relationship and stay back as a platonic friend only, or to just distance himself if he can't do that.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

You can always tell her, but dont expect anything in return

[dimmy01]

Just tell her that you like her and tell her that you have no intention of ruining their relationship. And accept that you can't have her because she already had her partner.

[PinkMichae]

But then she'll have to struggle with whether to keep him in her life knowing he has romantic feelings or to tell her boyfriend and cut the other friend out of her life.

Doesn't seem like a fair situation to put her in. And he's risking losing her friendship.

[he-takes-a-part]

Defo, No answers nothing over here but repression and yes can solve the issue but nO can't do anything if the girl anyway loves the guy why she would be disturbed i guess those who advocate negative are afraid of distraction

[Anonymous]

Yeah fuck it man Fight the Power who gives a damn about Sense and Sensibility.

[TwistedTube]

No, she's in a relationship. just keep it to yourself

[girl2034]

Um sure he can but it won't mean anything to the girl if she's happy in her current relationship.

[Lionman95]

I´d say no because you´re in relationship and you could build feelings in the other person.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Nope. You can hang around and see if her situation changes and tell her if she becomes single but don’t make moves, don’t screw with her relationship, don’t play games.