Why is it hard for guys to find girls to fuck? Why is it whenever I talk to guys they're like it's been a while since I last fucked?

[iseekpinetrees]

It's always a great amount of time 6 months or more

[FatherJack]

Several factors. , firstly there are more men than women , esp in the younger age groups , combined with far more women choosing to be single , man free & celibate , than genders reversed = a lot more men on " the market " than women. Evolutionary biology , the female has the much greater reproductive role & risk than the male , hence why women tend to avoid casual sex. Also , typically , women tend to have a much lower sex drive than men do , due to testosterone levels & brain wiring. Women have sex partners on tap if they so choose , whereas men have to put in a lot of work. " Dry spells " of at least several months & often many years are normal for the " average guy " , that's how it is , c'est la vie !

[MotorcycleMan]

They're lying. It's part of the bro code. All men have sex multiple times every day. ;)

Just to over-generalize, men tend to be more interested in just having sex, while women tend to be more interested in having a relationship. Guys who are just looking to fuck are going to have a harder time finding women who just want to fuck. Women on the other hand are not going to have as much trouble. Again, over-generalizing, but I think men in general are going to think "She wants to fuck me? Awesome!" while more women are thinking "He just wants to fuck me? That's rude/immature/disrespectful)

[ShadezMcgee]

Because women are the gatekeepers to sex and they are more selective depending on what they are looking for. The more attractive she is, the higher chance she has a lot of guys willing to have sex with her, but she is going to choose the one that is not only the standout, but turns her on.

[JSmuve]

Girls are pickier about who they hook up with so most guys go without. You can't just go up to random women on the street and most girls get flooded with messages in their social media accounts and dating apps so there's no way for the average guy to stand out.

[Levin]

Women usually have options. Men don't, it makes them desperate.

I used to go out a lot, on nights out, obviously, go to work, do a bit of extra education. Still wouldn't meet anyone I deemed suitable for a relationship, and not even to fuck. Most of the decent girls I met were in relationships. The ones that I wanted to fuck, I was not interested in. Even if I hadn't had sex for a while I would still have standards.

[Omario2049]

Because being what women find arounsing is hard and takes a lot of work tombe that fake. All women want a fantasy guy. It's hard for guys to hide their true personality long enough to get some ass. And even then when they do get it, they find it wasn't worth the effort.

[gymdude56]

Because (1) most of the time men don't know what women really like during sex in hookup situations, and (2) the man's priority is himself. It's a lot harder for women to get off than men. Is it really worth it for a woman to fuck a guy when he probably can't do it for her sexually? And on top of that, run the risk of getting pregnant etc etc? Nah.

It's easier for a woman to just jerk off when she's horny because she knows what she likes. And just wait until she's dating someone, because then there's more of a commitment to one another and each partner genuinely cares about the others pleasure.

[MTC29]

Guys in their late 20's and early 30's face a shortage of available women in their age range because by that time, most women are in a relationship or married. The average age of a woman to marry in the USA is around 28, which means that competition for the remaining available women is fierce.

Interestingly, the dynamics change drastically in the middle 40's when all of those woman married at 28 are now divorced. For guys who once faced a shortage of women, there now an over supply.

[Avicenna]

And they're horny

[Anonymous]

Because many guys don´t know how to ask a girl out.
Many dating plattforms where I come from that are described to offer a quick sex are either expensive or full fake profiles that lead you on other websites where you have to pay anyways.
There are less women that are open for friends with benefits than guys wanting such friendships.

[Diamold]

Because in most of the cases there are 10 guys trying to get lucky with 1 girl
And there is 1 girl interested in 1 guy, but she is waiting for the clueless guy to make a move
Girls have so many guys around, they can even choose who they want

[spartan55]

You really don't know this at the age of 'cough' 30? Hahaha

[blank_expression]

Girls are under age and illegal so that makes it “hard.”