Meh, seems a bit cliche and boring to me. Plus a movie? Yawn.
Look, if he's wanting to impress me, why not do something different? Find out what the girl is interested in and take her there.
The brunch is a cute idea (I mean you can't go wrong with food!) but as for the actual date... why not something fun and interactive: walk through the park, museum date, gym date- things such as that.
And if they're at work or on a lunch break, you want to keep things simple, spontaneous, but fun!
Depends if this is with a girlfriend or a woman with that potential, Coach. If you and her are exclusive it works because you are already together and don't have to worry about first impressions as by that point you are already aware of each other's personality and characteristics
If it is a new girl, it is best to save that for later. You want to get a feel for the woman first and the only way to do that is to not only show her you can have fun and have her associate positive feelings and emotions, but you need to be able to talk with her and see if you have any chemistry. You can't really talk to someone over a costly meal or a movie for that matter. You're focus is not really on each other long enough to leave a standing impression or desire to see each other again.
u Depends on the time of the year and the weather. July in Florida, the temperatures are in the 90's, the humidity is probably around 80%, and it rains EVERY afternoon.
In the fall or spring, those would be good times or a visit to a zoo, a walk on the beach, or a visit to a historic site (such as a drive or a hike around Fort George Island)
The problem with a movie date is that for 1.5-2 hours, you sit and watch a movie and you don't talk to your companion. That's comfortable if you are shy but not conducive to getting to know each other better. I prefer walking around in an antique store, browsing and comparing notes on likes and dislikes.
Depends on how many dates you have been with that person.
The first time I went on a movie with my Partner was after months and months of dating.
Also because you can't just really get to know the person during a movie...
If it's in the beginning id rather talk, not eve na brunch is needed, a walk around the park and so on. As long ast he conversation flows.
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I don’t care so much about where we would go during the date, it’s just already a surprise if the guy plans something esp. if it is multiple things. You have no idea how many guys just hound you to only meet on a street corner and stare at you with nothing to say,
Brunch great idea movie not if it's a new relationship or date as you can't talk and get to know each other
Funny how the males are the only ones that put bad idea and anything other than good idea in the poll.
This seems pretty good for your first 2 or 3 dates. If there seems to be a good connection after that point it might be smart to take things into a more romantic direction... dinner and drinks or something of that sort.
First dates are a see you in-person type of thing and figure out if there's interest in seeing each other more, in-person. Its where you show that you can carry on conversation, have manners, no creepy/murderer vibes, not mining for nasal gold, etc...
An hour, maybe two, at a coffee shop/pâtisserie/food cart and then a call, preferably, or text after asking for brunch and a movie a few days later is preferable to me.
u it's all about the one you're with... if they great, then brunch will be great, or mostly anything else really
Great idea , especially as an initial gesture , gives you good chance to access , in a potentially more casual circumstance.
I live in a small artsy fartsy mountain town where the only cinema house has been converted to a theater stage to brunch and a movie would be out of the question unless at her house or my office since I refuse to buy a television. Up here, most just get high or hammered and or have sex so drink and a screw is more likely than a bite and a flick.
Movie is bad idea because the whole idea of a date is to get to know the guy. If you’re with your mouths on the date for 4 hours in a movie, how the hell are u gonna get to know him?
First Date: Conversation is Important. Brunch is Good. Maybe the Second One, hun. See how Brunch with a Crunch will Go and Good Luck!! xx
I’ll take it.
Usually when my partner and I have the day off, we sleep in, have lunch then run errands together. The movies would be nice after match 2020 🤣
I love breakfast dates!
I never understood the point of going to a movie on the first few dates. The goal at that point should be to get to know each other by talking. Going out to eat is always a good idea though.
I didn't see the first date thing before I clicked. Movie is good idea but not for first date. You need to talk and find out about each other. Can't talk in the movies
An afternoon date can lead to a very satisfying evening..
.. but brunch and a movie? (yawning) leads to a nap and THEN some excellent action !
It's all good
Bad idea for a first date. A first date is coffee at Starbucks followed by a BJ in the car. If that goes well and I want to spend more time with her, brunch and a movie could easily follow.
Tell us why you think it would be a bad idea. Please. We're dying to know.
If it is done right it's a great 1 2 3 combo. I like it.
It's not a bad idea. If ya got time for all that
Excellent choice well planned ✌️
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