Would it be bad for me to ask my boyfriend what he sees in me/why he loves me?

pink_and_inlove · 2021-07-20T17:47:31Z

I just want to know why he would want to be with someone like me that is so awkward around his family , doesn’t look people in the face, doesn’t know what to say around people stuff like that. Yesterday I was hanging with his family and although I did try to talk to them I felt like I still made a fool out of myself because I was very shy and uncomfortable I was so nervous that I didn’t look at their face a lot i was looking down. I just feel a bit embarrassed and like I made them feel uncomfortable I still enjoyed playing pool with my boyfriend, his brother, and his wife but most of the time I felt so uncomfortable I wanted to leave the whole time there were 5 of his family members there and we talked so much I didn’t know what to do so I kept on looking at my phone not knowing what to say or anything I just felt so uncomfortable. I don’t know what my boyfriend sees in me that he wants to marry me and I have a feeling that his family wonders that too I can’t even look people in the face (people that aren’t him) because I get so tense

Slim57

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Yeah that shits aggravating

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KrakenAttackin Follow
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Don't. It will just cause a fight.

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Slim57 Follow
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Yeah that shits aggravating

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- Still-alive
  
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  Why?
  
- Slim57
  
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  If I care enough to say I love you than it doesn't really matter why
  
- Still-alive
  
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  some people would like some reassurance though. whats so wrong with that?
  
- Slim57
  
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  Nothing its just hard to explain why you love someone sometimes, and it gets tiring hearing it over in every new relationship
  
- Still-alive
  
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  sure if it happens all the time yeah, but once in a long while it can help
  
- Slim57
  
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  Help how?
  
- Still-alive
  
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  well if you aren't taking her out or showing her much... its needed after awhile.
  
- Slim57
  
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  Never struggled with that though
  
- Still-alive
  
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  but if she ever asked you... i mean ever you'd get annoyed by that?
  
- Slim57
  
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  Its just usually followed by more never ending questions
  
- Still-alive
  
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  like what?
  
- Slim57
  
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  Like if I say i love you because of your personality and they say what about my personality and then I tell them and then they ask why again
  
certifiedalphafemale Follow
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Of course not.

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