This girl I've never met in person, who I confessed to around two months ago. She said she liked me too, but since we've never met in person (covid restrictions) she can't be sure about me, which I can respect. A little background, she had a horrible ex who cheated on her 7 times and was toxic af. Anyway, before I confessed, I'd had some pretty flirty convos with her and she enjoyed it, and occasionally flirted back. After my confession, it's been pretty good too, although she asked me to not have expectations rn. Around a month ago though, we had some really long phonecalls where (almost 3 hrs for 4 days straight) where we just talked a lot. Around the same time, she said she wanted to give dating me a shot right now, and she'd been thinking about me a lot lately. I said if you are sure about me, she said no, so I said let's do it if you aren't sure, or you may regret it. She said okay, that's mature. We were good. During one such long call I asked if I should go, she said "No, just don't leave me, stay." She was really sleepy at this point, but didn't want me to go. And out of nowhere she said that "Did you just say I love you?". I said no. When we finally got off the call, she called the next day and said that all I've told you the past week was me getting a little emotional, so just to clarify, we aren't a thing. I said yes ik. And we still talk pretty well, but for around 10 days she's been rather cold, and not talking to me much ( no calls, minimal texting) even though ik she isn't busy. I've had had few doctor appointments, and she knows but she hasn't even asked if I'm doing OK. So her 'feelings' seem to come and go in phases. I just don't know if she really likes me, or is fooling around. My friends think we're unofficially dating but we're a little on and off. I just want to know what she wants and how it'll go for me. Pls help
Is she really unsure about me? Or is she hiding her true feelings? (A little long but help pls)?
