Do you feel bad for these men?

[Anonymous]

How do men cope if they’re not all of the following?

• Being 6ft2 (or at the very least 6ft)
• Having a big penis (at least 7 inches)
• Being handsome + good physique
• being v rich (or at least having the capacity to make a big success)

Like if I did not have all these things going for me I’d be very depressed and have no confidence. How do men have worth if they’re missing one or more of these things?

Notice I haven’t even mentioned health which is the most necessary thing to life.

We live in a world where many of us have it ‘all.’

I agree with your thinking

I disagree

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Also let’s not forget women are savages.

A lot of women are just straight evil when it comes to not having one of the following 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[MCheetah]

- I'm a manlet in height. (181)
- I have a small penis. (6.5)
- I'm unattractive and overweight. (5.5/10 or 6/10)
- I'm Poor. (Barely make $2,400 a month.)

I cope by realizing people suck more often than not and that the more I learn to make my mind a sanctuary, the less important my flawed physical form will be. I lost everything when it came to genetics. 0's across the board. But I can at least developed learned skills and increase my skillset, even if I can't do anything about the flawed physical appearance. (I tried talking to @NerdyAndTall about it, but I don't think she understands what it's like to be physically negative in everything as a man.)

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'7
6 inch dick
Cute, but not overly hot like a male model or anything.
Definitely not rich.

How do I cope?
I'm lucky that I've always been popular, I had a good sense of humor and quite a bit of confidence with women. I'm also very athletic.
My secret is that I actually like myself and I think that resonates with other people.
I also love women and I spend more time enjoying them in relationships than worrying about my height or whatever.
I'm a father, I've been married to a beautiful woman and fell in love multiple times.
You can't let every thing bother you or it becomes toxic.
It will make you insecure.

[Asker]

I don’t know how you do it?

[Asker]

How would you get women? With all this I still don’t find it easy. But I don’t try though

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly, some women are attracted to my personality and confidence.
I can be very sweet and loving and funny I'm told.
Women love to laugh and have fun.
They think I'm cute and I'm definitely very sexual and I've been told that they always have fun in bed with me.
When you grow up not fitting their idea standards, you can either develop a thick skin and an unbeatable resiliency, inner strength and self confidence or you break down and become a very insecure person.
Insecurity is one of the most unattractive qualities in a guy.

[Asker]

Yes I do agree. It’s good they have fun with you in bed. But I feel you have to be 7+ inches to really satisfy a woman to the max. I’m 7.25 inches, but I’m a virgin so I can’t speak just listen to what people say.

[Opinion Owner]

That's not completely true though.
Like for instance with me, I have a high sex drive and I can last a very long time.
The fact that I get so hard, I'm very athletic, passionate, extremely attracted to women and I last a long time all works in my favour.
Not to mention, being married a long time really teaches you how to please your partner.
My partner always climaxed multiple times before I did.
We had a very healthy and adventurous sex life.
We were also in love so everything we did together felt the best experience ever for both of us.

[Asker]

Well I’m happy for you. When you stated your penis size did you mean bone pressed?

[Opinion Owner]

Just measured from the top.
In reality my 6 inch penis has actually been quite good.
I don't slip out and it's always been big enough to get the job done.
It helps that I'm fairly lean, in good shape and not overweight so I can really get positioned well during sex. I've even hit a woman's cervix a few times during sex so I know my size is going far enough.
I can definitely make women orgasm during penetration.
Maybe it would happen faster if I had an 8 inch dick, but I have time so It's not a problem.

[Asker]

But also if you’re 7 or 8 inches a girl will be like... wow it plays a part in it.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh definitely, but I don't have that, so I have to do the best I can with what I do have.
That's where you separate the guys who make things happen and the guys who give up.
I was never a quitter and in return I've managed to accomplish everything.

[Asker]

But you may be closer to 7 then you think because you don’t bone press. You’re supposed to bone press that’s what people do.

[Browneye57]

They whine a lot.
The truth is, confidence trumps everything. Irrational confidence. And the big penis thing is a joke - only noobies morons and porn-addicts are worried about dick size. And girls that shove huge shit up their vajayjay.

And yes, you need looks and money too. A girl would have to be an idiot to take up with a dead-broke guy. Looks can be augmented by proper dress, hygiene, and physique.

Weak guys just make a lot of excuses instead of going for what they want. Women absolutely loathe weak men. And we've raised a whole crop of 'em. I blame my generation - we raised a whole crop of crappy parents of these girlie-men.

[TheorionMage]

In much of Life, ANYONE can experience moderate success in times of low challenges or threats.
Speak to me of Those who stand by... & WITH you... when the shit hits the fan.
When there's "not enough' to go around---

ALL folks are YOUR 'friends' WHEN YOU BUY THEIR BEER...
who's STILL there when it time for THEM to buy THE NEXT round?
Hear the crickets chirping?
Cynical? ... HELL YES!

[Recurrence]

The existence of society contradicts what you believe. There’s a huge spectrum of people attracted to different things, that’s why diversity exists

[Asker]

Try but generally speaking this is what the ladies want

[slatyb]

I, none of those things and after divorcing I had no problems getting dates. I’m considerate, smart, funny, and I pay attention. That was enough for many of the women I met.

[Dchrls78104]

No, I do not. I've seen men like you describe getting into successful relationships so what you are talking about does not appear to be an issue in my country.

[JBlade]

I cope by not giving a shit what people think lol.

[humanearth]

Bingo bongo boo, I see someone waking up

[SnakeBoop]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Dinosaursandanime65]

………MEH