Am I a bad person for sleeping with an overweight below-average looking guy?

[PrincessAnna123]

I've been dating a really smart intelligent cute guy called Jason the last 4months. He's got his own house and a loving family that I've met and they like me. He is every girl's dream.
But I decided to give him a bit of a break, we're not exclusive yet which I'm glad about tbh. I mean he's a really great guy but I think that's a turn off, why does he think he needs to please everyone and be so good, it's annoying.

So anyway at the gym there was a sweaty overweight guy on the crosstrainer, I gave him my number. I met him and decided to f**k him.
I told Jason and showed him a picture of the guy and he got really upset, he called the guy ugly and disgusting lol, I got angry at him obviously.
Not such a great guy now is he?

Updates

+1 y

Jason gave me lots of expensive gifts which I didn't ask for and all they did was make me feel guilty and spoilt. And now he wants them back lol
I actually sold them in auctions and helped fund a pet shelter that has lots of unwanted pets that I believe were from families who live in Jason's neighborhood.

Updates

+1 y

It appears that simps, and girls who seek attention from simps are the ones giving me flack on this question. As for Jason I've had to get a restraining order against him as he tried to knock on on my house door without telling me he's coming round and my mom called the cops. I told him before I don't want to see him and I want to continue seeing the new guy.

[Cherry234]

Yeah that Jason guy sounds like a jerk. It seems like you're attracted to the overweight guy. That's not a bad thing. It's good to overlook things like facial features and weight (to a certain extent) when you like someone. If you really have chemistry with this guy then you should go for him

[PrincessAnna123]

Thank you lovely, now why do others here seem to think I'm a terrible person. I value what the person is on the inside not what they show off

[Cherry234]

That's a good quality to have. I don't know why they think that. Maybe they can't accept people who they don't find attractive

[Cherry234]

I see you're getting flack for asking this question

[PrincessAnna123]

Yeah, so sad 😔. But you're a sweet person who understands and that warms me a lot.

[Cherry234]

Thank you. I’m glad I’m making you feel better 🙂

[Gwenhwyfar]

@princessanna123 I kinda feel bad now. But I still don’t get why you fucked a guy you obviously don’t think is attractive. I had a chubby boyfriend, but I personally thought he was cute.

[PrincessAnna123]

@Gwenhwyfar I never said I don't think he's attractive, I said "below average looking"

[Gwenhwyfar]

Okay. The way you described him made him sound gross.

[PrincessAnna123]

@Cherry234 good lord all my words are being twisted to have me look like a bad person, and doing this under your opinion to have you change your opinion

[Gwenhwyfar]

No! I’m not saying you’re a bad person. It’s just the way you described him made me think you didn’t find him attractive at all.

[PrincessAnna123]

@Gwenhwyfar why you writing underneath this girls opinion instead of your own? you think I'm stupid

[Cherry234]

I wasn't trying to change my opinion

[PrincessAnna123]

I'm glad to hear that

[anylolone]

You did that in an attempt to make him jealous, you are horrible.

You failed and he just gave an honest opinion, of course you found the fat guy attractive enough for you to fuck, because you fucked him, but you also thinks he's nothing but a prop because he's not as attractive.

It's normal that he finds the guys disgusting, he doesn't dig guys, men have to be very conventionally attractive for men to understand that they are attractive.

[ToastyOats]

You are gross. He should dump you and tell everyone what you did. That's what I did when something similar happened to me. That women never got respect in those circles again.

[Anonymous]

Just by you posing the question is mean. If you are attracted to him I wanted him why does it matter

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you just leave them alone

[CoolGuy7532]

You need to get your life in order and focus on why you're making bad decisions. That's just my personal opinion based on what you said.

[the_man57]

He probably thought you guys were exclusive or at least wanted to be. But the way you're talking about gym guy isn't okay

[exitseven]

No, you were a real insensitive jerk for doing that.

[Yourfriend2021]

It's good that you aren't after money and care more about someone's character than looks :)

[Shy_Steve]

I bet you the sweaty overweight Guy would never do that even if you broke up with him.

[Chthou95]

This seems like a made up story. No way this shit can be real lol

[Anonymous]

You basically cheated on your boyfriend and now you’re calling him a bad guy for insulting a guy you did when he said that out of anger because you betrayed him so you don’t make any sense, what would you do if the roles were reversed?

[PrincessAnna123]

Read the description, were not in a relationship

[Opinion Owner]

Well it seems like it the way you talked about him, seems like you wanted to make him mad and if he didn’t think he was then he would not have cared about you having sex with an over weight guy

[PrincessAnna123]

He called the guy ugly, don't make excuses for him. He asked me if I met anyone and I told him and showed him his competition. The funny thing is this new guy knows about Jason and never once said a bad word about him.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you originally made it seem like you were dating because you met his family, he said the guy was ugly because he was mad that’s why, obviously you don’t have feelings for him and decided to be with a guy that you like for his personality and not his looks so if that’s what you like then that’s fine

[PrincessAnna123]

We were dating but like I said I decided to have a break from dating.

[Opinion Owner]

Well that’s why he is mad, you chose someone else instead, that’s just how it is, dating is tough for people

[PrincessAnna123]

It's not that I chose someone else, the way he is caused me to lose interest in him.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok, that’s understandable

[PrincessAnna123]

Thanks you

[Seinna]

Looks like an incel bait...

[tatianamay]

lol, this shit is messed up.. You do you

[JosyJosy]

Wait are you in a relationship?

[PrincessAnna123]

no, read the description

[JosyJosy]

Well you're not official yet so it's fine do whatever

[PrincessAnna123]

Thank you, and I don't want to see Jason again.

[JosyJosy]

That poor Jason.

[PrincessAnna123]

He's not poor he's rich but money can't buy me

[JosyJosy]

Poor Jason.

[PrincessAnna123]

You made me smile, Ty

[MKing96]

So you Cheated On your boyfriend and now he is the bad guy? disgusting.

[PrincessAnna123]

Not exclusively in a relationship can you actually read dumbass

[TurningGraves]

Jason still seems like a pretty great guy.

[In_Trance]

whatever works for you

[PrincessAnna123]

Thank you, Im happy with myself

[Hangry06]

Jason needs to run away 🏃‍♂️

[Partaken]

This seems a tiny bit farfetch'd

[barn_stormer]

you're an idiot. you probably lost jason

[PrincessAnna123]

I didn't lose something I didn't keep, also mind your language

[Anonymous]

Lol you're a flake.