You can't control your height. You can a bit at certain points but for the most part you can't work hard at being taller and it's something you can't change. Frustrating when you have no control over something. Can work hard at being fit though
Same reason why men are judged for liking woman with bigger boobs. Life is not fair you can like whatever the fuck you want. Why the fuck do you care what people think anyways? You can like men only 7'2 if you want.
That's because women are shamed for having certain preferences or standards. Women are shamed all the time for wanting tall men. They're even shamed if they only want guys a couple of inches taller than them or just taller than them no matter by how many inches
@Cherry234 Everyone really has preferences. Like I said life is not fair plus I am not gonna pursue someone who's requirements I don't meet. I'll just go looking for another woman then.
@Cherry234 Right and there are female models that can't get every guy. Let that sink in. It's really an ego thing. I understand rejections stings like bees ass but you will eventually move on. I am sure you've been rejected before and it stunk like a donkeys ass right? But you moved on. For men its just a considerably worse because men tend to have higher forms of narcissisms than women. Seriously look it up.
@blondfrog I've been rejected plenty of times. I've had crushes on all sorts of guys but they didn't like me back. It sucked but it's not something I take personally and I don't resent them for that. I'm not gonna throw a temper tantrum just bc someone doesn't like me in that way. This height thing is similar (not exactly the same thing but similar)
Well I'm 6'3, yay me I guess... still doesn't do shit for me lol. I like women to approach me, women get scared because I'm tall I guess, it's all a real mess if you ask me lol.
I'm not judging, I just don't get it personally. Same with dick size. A lot of girls want a guy with an 8 inch dick. Despite it being incredibly rate and the fact that you can't take 8 inches, you just can't.
Everyone has their preferences just like guys like big boobs or butts or short girls or tall girls, girls have their own preferences surprise surprise! Lol as a tall man myself I like girls of all heights but I do prefer girls on the shorter side 😊
I don't know what are you implying? What i'm implying is you basically don't prefer most women. So you'd be okay with a girl thats 4'2 that weighs 200 lbs?
@vald9inches Yeah exactly. It seems like people on here think women are assholes if they say or imply they only want to date tall men. They're not actually making fun of their height. They're just expressing their preferences. And not ALL women are only interested in tall men. It could just be a minority. Like I said, I like tall guys too but that doesn't mean I wouldn't date someone under 6 ft
@Cherry234 there's a difference between just stating a preference vs putting down others that don't meet it. People that judge women for liking tall guys is for the latter, not the former.
@Darkpheonix33 Ok. I've expressed my preferences before but I didn't put anyone down for them. But there will always be someone who's going to be upset no matter what and take it out on you (I mean you in general). I spoke about this on another question (I think it was just meant for men but the OP didn't filter the question on gender) and there was this one dude who gave me flack for answering and I think he downvoted me too
@Darkphoenix33 so how does "but I do prefer girls on the shorter side" = "okay with girls thats 4'2 that weighs 200 lbs"? Not there is anything wrong with a girl like that buy why not 5'5 & 140 lbs?
@Cherry234 yea I honestly don't know why people persecute other who just have a personal preference as if you are not allowed to be an individual person lmfao 😂
5'5 women aren't on the short side. I was giving an example of a short woman you would probably think is unattractive despite being short to show how retarded some preferences are
@Darkpheonix33 5'5 women aren't on the short side to you maybe but for me they are lol 😂. Preferences are exactly that personal preferences so they wouldn't be retarded at all to the person that prefers them! Lol I mean its pretty self explanatory dude lol 😂
That's literally not how it works. Just because a 5'5 woman is short to you doesn't mean women that height are short. It's never relative. I'm referring to preferences being retarded based on the fact that you state a preference but you would still reject someone that is part of it. Would you be okay with a midget? Would you be attracted to obese "short" women?
If someone prefers short obese women it's their preference man and to a degree preference to a degree is relative so it is a very subjective thing. A 6'4 girl is going to want a man taller than her so a 6'0 guy would be short for her
Yeah but you stated you like women on the shorter side, 5'5 for a woman isn't short and you probably wouldn't even be attracted to certain shorter women too which is why preferences like this are stupid
Like I said it's all a matter of perspective 5'5 may not be short for you but it is for me! So anything under 5'5 or 5'4 or even shorter than 5'2 is attractive to me! I also like girls that are skinny or chubby and anything in between! I don't get what the problem is? Lol 😂
@vald9inches I really do think height is subjective. I'm 5'5 so you think of me as short. I've been told by a lot of people I'm tall but I don't think I'm tall. To super short people I'm tall. My aunt says I'm really tall because she's a lot shorter than I am. When I stand next to her I notice there's a huge height difference between us even when I'm not in heels
Same thing can be asked about ethnicity, etc. It all comes down to them feeling like you're dismissing someone about something they can't change. Besides, why care what they think? Unless, you're being harassed or what not because of it.
They claim its body shaming when they literally require women to have an hour glass, no stretch marks , perfect teeth, colored eyes like this is build a bitch or something 😂😂
Women aren't necessarily judged for whom they like. What I've found horribly predictable and rampant, is that if a female DOESN'T find you physically attractive... you'll get zero human courtesy from her altogether. In public, customer service, etc.
Height is only one out of a hundred ways a guy can be judged though. If height were the only requirement, Floyd Mayweather would be strokin himself every night.😏
As a 6'2 guy I have nothing against women with that preference. I know it must be really frustrating for short guys, but life is not fair. Is like being a flat girl, you will get less attention, nothing to be done about it.
@gag2021 yes, but life is not fair is it? People like what they like and there is nothing that can be done about it. What should girls that like tall guys do? Force themselves to be happy with a short one? That never works. Only creates resentment.
Maybe it was growing up watching TV seeing all the beautiful women. I used to really like watching Wild Wild West, where actor Robert Conrad could do anything. He did all of his own stunts, too. Robert Conrad was only 5'8" tall (as I am), but he was in excellent physical shape! He did wear shoes with elevator heels to increase his height.
I don’t think people realize that beauty fades rather quickly in life. Overwhelming majority of People are only beautiful up until 40. Now that’s not a very long time.
It’s about time people love themselves for who they are rather than obsess over physical appearances.
There’s a common saying that “attractive people tend to suffer the most once they grow old”.
Because so many women shout shallow at men at the top of their lungs when it comes to what men find attractive. The real reality are that both sides as just projecting their insecurities.
Same reason men are judged for liking busty fit girls
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Probably because weight can be controlled where as height cannot. But mostly you are judged because you are making others feel like shit and then you justify it by saying TWO wrongs make it right.
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I don't find that problem at all. You are free to choose your preferences.
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You can't control your height. You can a bit at certain points but for the most part you can't work hard at being taller and it's something you can't change. Frustrating when you have no control over something. Can work hard at being fit though
Same reason why men are judged for liking woman with bigger boobs. Life is not fair you can like whatever the fuck you want. Why the fuck do you care what people think anyways? You can like men only 7'2 if you want.
That's because women are shamed for having certain preferences or standards. Women are shamed all the time for wanting tall men. They're even shamed if they only want guys a couple of inches taller than them or just taller than them no matter by how many inches
it seriously doesn't matter to me though if you want a guy taller then is see nothing wrong with that.
Ok I'm glad you're one of the people who understand
@Cherry234 Everyone really has preferences. Like I said life is not fair plus I am not gonna pursue someone who's requirements I don't meet. I'll just go looking for another woman then.
@blondfrog Exactly. You can expect everyone to be attracted to you. There's someone out there for every body
@Cherry234 Right and there are female models that can't get every guy. Let that sink in. It's really an ego thing. I understand rejections stings like bees ass but you will eventually move on. I am sure you've been rejected before and it stunk like a donkeys ass right? But you moved on. For men its just a considerably worse because men tend to have higher forms of narcissisms than women. Seriously look it up.
@blondfrog I've been rejected plenty of times. I've had crushes on all sorts of guys but they didn't like me back. It sucked but it's not something I take personally and I don't resent them for that. I'm not gonna throw a temper tantrum just bc someone doesn't like me in that way. This height thing is similar (not exactly the same thing but similar)
*I meant to say you can't expect everyone to be attracted to you. I just noticed what I said there
no it's fine yeah I knew that's what you meant
Why are we judged for the things we like in women?
If you can answer that then you have the answer to your question.
Well I'm 6'3, yay me I guess... still doesn't do shit for me lol. I like women to approach me, women get scared because I'm tall I guess, it's all a real mess if you ask me lol.
I think height doesn't matter, unless you're 165cm
Messi is 171 but any women wouldn't say no to him
They are just resentful, and take it out on you instead of working on themselves.
lol @neosporin blocked me
I'm not judging, I just don't get it personally. Same with dick size. A lot of girls want a guy with an 8 inch dick. Despite it being incredibly rate and the fact that you can't take 8 inches, you just can't.
Everyone has their preferences just like guys like big boobs or butts or short girls or tall girls, girls have their own preferences surprise surprise! Lol as a tall man myself I like girls of all heights but I do prefer girls on the shorter side 😊
There aren't that many women under 5'2 lol
What are you trying to imply? 🤨
I don't know what are you implying? What i'm implying is you basically don't prefer most women. So you'd be okay with a girl thats 4'2 that weighs 200 lbs?
And why would you assume that? Is what I am asking you if you can read lol
"but I do prefer girls on the shorter side"
@vald9inches Yeah exactly. It seems like people on here think women are assholes if they say or imply they only want to date tall men. They're not actually making fun of their height. They're just expressing their preferences. And not ALL women are only interested in tall men. It could just be a minority. Like I said, I like tall guys too but that doesn't mean I wouldn't date someone under 6 ft
@Cherry234 there's a difference between just stating a preference vs putting down others that don't meet it. People that judge women for liking tall guys is for the latter, not the former.
@Darkpheonix33 Ok. I've expressed my preferences before but I didn't put anyone down for them. But there will always be someone who's going to be upset no matter what and take it out on you (I mean you in general). I spoke about this on another question (I think it was just meant for men but the OP didn't filter the question on gender) and there was this one dude who gave me flack for answering and I think he downvoted me too
@Darkphoenix33 so how does "but I do prefer girls on the shorter side" = "okay with girls thats 4'2 that weighs 200 lbs"? Not there is anything wrong with a girl like that buy why not 5'5 & 140 lbs?
@Cherry234 yea I honestly don't know why people persecute other who just have a personal preference as if you are not allowed to be an individual person lmfao 😂
5'5 women aren't on the short side. I was giving an example of a short woman you would probably think is unattractive despite being short to show how retarded some preferences are
@Darkpheonix33 5'5 women aren't on the short side to you maybe but for me they are lol 😂. Preferences are exactly that personal preferences so they wouldn't be retarded at all to the person that prefers them! Lol I mean its pretty self explanatory dude lol 😂
That's literally not how it works. Just because a 5'5 woman is short to you doesn't mean women that height are short. It's never relative. I'm referring to preferences being retarded based on the fact that you state a preference but you would still reject someone that is part of it. Would you be okay with a midget? Would you be attracted to obese "short" women?
@vald9inches I know. Some people are ridiculous smh
If someone prefers short obese women it's their preference man and to a degree preference to a degree is relative so it is a very subjective thing. A 6'4 girl is going to want a man taller than her so a 6'0 guy would be short for her
@Cherry234 oh I know! Trust me! Haha 😂
Yeah but you stated you like women on the shorter side, 5'5 for a woman isn't short and you probably wouldn't even be attracted to certain shorter women too which is why preferences like this are stupid
Like I said it's all a matter of perspective 5'5 may not be short for you but it is for me! So anything under 5'5 or 5'4 or even shorter than 5'2 is attractive to me! I also like girls that are skinny or chubby and anything in between! I don't get what the problem is? Lol 😂
@vald9inches I really do think height is subjective. I'm 5'5 so you think of me as short. I've been told by a lot of people I'm tall but I don't think I'm tall. To super short people I'm tall. My aunt says I'm really tall because she's a lot shorter than I am. When I stand next to her I notice there's a huge height difference between us even when I'm not in heels
@Cherry234 So then yea standing next to me you would feel pretty short lol I am 6'5"
@vald9inches Yes I would feel so short since you're a whole foot taller than I am
@Cherry234 Or what do you consider tall then for you personally? Lol
@vald9inches Tall to me is 5'11 and above
@Cherry234 Well I am glad to be above that then! Lol 😜
Same thing can be asked about ethnicity, etc. It all comes down to them feeling like you're dismissing someone about something they can't change. Besides, why care what they think? Unless, you're being harassed or what not because of it.
People who have a lot of time on their hands judge others because they don't have anything better to do
I don't know but it's hot. But I've been with few shorter guys and their dicks are huge usually. insanely good lol
They claim its body shaming when they literally require women to have an hour glass, no stretch marks , perfect teeth, colored eyes like this is build a bitch or something 😂😂
It kind of is but to each his own.
It's not , y'all require so much out of women and throw a tantrum like children when we say we like guys with height 😂😂
No we don’t depends who you’re talking to at the end of the day if it’s a preference ok but when it’s a requirement bit becomes superficial
Wow I didn't even know that thanks 🙄😒
I agree with you. It’s a women choice to have her preference and no one’s got right to judge her.
Women aren't necessarily judged for whom they like. What I've found horribly predictable and rampant, is that if a female DOESN'T find you physically attractive... you'll get zero human courtesy from her altogether. In public, customer service, etc.
Height is only one out of a hundred ways a guy can be judged though. If height were the only requirement, Floyd Mayweather would be strokin himself every night.😏
As a 6'2 guy I have nothing against women with that preference.
I know it must be really frustrating for short guys, but life is not fair. Is like being a flat girl, you will get less attention, nothing to be done about it.
If you're overweight or fat you can lose weight.
@gag2021 yes, but life is not fair is it? People like what they like and there is nothing that can be done about it.
What should girls that like tall guys do? Force themselves to be happy with a short one? That never works. Only creates resentment.
Maybe it was growing up watching TV seeing all the beautiful women. I used to really like watching Wild Wild West, where actor Robert Conrad could do anything. He did all of his own stunts, too. Robert Conrad was only 5'8" tall (as I am), but he was in excellent physical shape! He did wear shoes with elevator heels to increase his height.
@gag2021 he was decently tall. No need to try to increase his height.
Robert Conrad was 5'8", he wore lifts in his shoes to make himself 5'10"
I don’t think people realize that beauty fades rather quickly in life. Overwhelming majority of People are only beautiful up until 40. Now that’s not a very long time.
It’s about time people love themselves for who they are rather than obsess over physical appearances.
There’s a common saying that “attractive people tend to suffer the most once they grow old”.
For some, beauty fades at 35. Not even 40
The woman in the picture did not look 5”0, she looks 4”12 and that’s me being nice 😂
Surely you aren't this stupid?
Stfu, I obviously meant 4”11
It is literally a 1 inch difference. How can u tell the difference between 1 inch?
You’re thinking this three way too much
Because so many women shout shallow at men at the top of their lungs when it comes to what men find attractive. The real reality are that both sides as just projecting their insecurities.
Same reason men are judged for liking busty fit girls
Probably because weight can be controlled where as height cannot. But mostly you are judged because you are making others feel like shit and then you justify it by saying TWO wrongs make it right.
I don't find that problem at all. You are free to choose your preferences.