Once a cheater always a cheater?

[foxylv6]

I have been seeing this guy for 2 months he just got out of a 20-year relationship because he cheated on her throughout their 20-year relationship. He said he changed that he will never cheat on anyone ever again. I believed him at first but it is hard to trust him when he is always making jokes about him being with other girls. He keeps saying we need to split up so that I could work on my jealousy. That my jealousy is the reason we can't be in a relationship. I tell him it's because of his past cheating reputation and the stupid jokes about women he makes.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it’s entirely true for some people. My friend once cheated on his girlfriend and he regretted it sooo much to the point where he hated himself so much and we had to force him to go to therapy to get over his guilt (he’s never cheated ever again), but if someones continuously cheats for 20 years, there’s no way that they’re gonna change

[Caliguy88]

I worry about cheaters. I’ve never cheated or been cheated on that I know. But I have two guy friends that have had wives cheat…. Unfortunately I found out the cheating went deeper with both than the guys ever found out. But both guys treated the girls like objects and would do things like encouraging them to get naked for people or hookup with girls…. So they kind of built an ok to be very sexual with others. But I think most cheaters stay that way. My one buddies wife has since told me she just wants to be with tons of guys and that’s what gets her going. Like, she will again for sure. The other wife probably won’t again.

[serious]

This is another repetitive question on GAG. As usual my answer is YES. Once a cheater will always be a cheater.

Irrespective of the situation and the reasons they had or how much they regretted. My opinion and thinking regarding cheaters won't change.

[Squiggles88]

Ditch him he sounds immature and ready to place the blame on anyone but himself. I don't think he will change

[WeeGeeTheSecond]

I have a friend who cheated on her girlfriend ONCE and regreted it.
They are still in the relationship and they're as strong as ever.
In his case, no. Once a cheater doesn't necessarily mean always a cheater.

In your case though I wouldn't see it like that at all. It's one thing to cheat once. It's completely another to cheat for 20 YEARS then magically "change". And he has the balls to say YOU have to work on your jealousy? Give him the boot.

[NewgodX]

I find that statement true
Coz once someone does it it becomes easy for thrm to do it again same as stealing

[FilmGuy93]

That guy cheated for 20 years, he's not gonna change now. Being suspicious is not insecurity and jealousy, that's just being smart.

[Nightroads]

At 6 months, so far no signs of cheating. Just 50 to sixty years and I'll have a better answer for you.

[PrettyPriya]

I would not date someone that openly jokes about a history of cheating.

[Mangospacho]

You’re not the first person he’s told that he’s done with his cheating ways and will never cheat again. He’s had a lot of time to write, rehearse, and give that speech to multiple women.

[theScottsman]

It all depends!!! People are quick to judge!

Ill be honest, I've cheated on my last relationship with the woman i am with now. And i have no desire to seek other women. Some people realize the damage and it does Change them.

[Browneye57]

Wow... sounds like a match made in heaven.
Ever heard of a bed post notch? You're one.

[okeydoke]

I’d be out. 20 years is a long time to be a cheater.

[JesseJayNeak]

Don't trust him. What's so hard to understand? If he cheats on you once, he'll do it again

[CoolGuy7532]

Lol. Are you serious? Don't waste your time.

[Caunsos]

Depends the person's motivation for cheating.

[KrakenAttackin]

It sounds like you both have issues.

[Abdulwahh]

My advice to you is to focus on the good guys

[Hangry06]

People change

[Djaay]

No they don't... just cercumstances that bury the truth better.

[Anonymous]

Lol sure troll

[ChocoBat]

Yes.

[888theGreat]

he will continue

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[EaterPeter]

Yes.