How often do people compete for partners?

[jennifer_bloom]

I know a girl who says her friend never dates guys on Fridays cause the guys who date her on Mondays and Wednesday’s date more popular girls on Friday, they are all elite and wealthy and only date other millionaires, is this how love functions at the wealthier levels?

[devilman666]

There is a saying that the top 80% of women fight over the top 20% of men, leaving the bottom 80% of men to fight over the bottom 20% of women. This sounds about right, wealthy guy gets to date multiple women at once because they're willing to put up with it. Apparently women want free money so badly that they are willing to give up on the chance at love... either that or they delide themselves into thinking they'll love the guy just bevause he's rich? Idek

[rcljr]

If I have to “ compete” with someone else for your attention, love, companionship, he can have you, I’m not playing the game.

[Frank_Woods]

Culture today has changed a lot for the worse. Dating is synonymous with hook ups. For most young women, they will have no trouble. For most young guys, they are out of luck.

Why's that? The issue with hook up culture is that there is no relationship anymore. Girls simply date guys with money, and guys simply date guys for sex. Older guys have the advantage for the most part if they have money and are already successful, as opposed to broke young college students in crippling student loan debt.

It's a sad reality, and I expect the millennials and gen z'er to produce less meaningful relationships and lower marriage rates.

[mooky06]

Whoa? That sounds like a headache lol

I’m sure competing is very common in the dating world. I don’t want that nonsense in my life though. If you want me, you want me.. i’m not going to compete for your attention because of it. CBF. Got better things to do

[Dude_777]

Weekends are normally for special events, that's all i can say to it.

I normally date Monday to Thursday, and keep my special weekends plan secret from girls i date, to keep them curiously thinking what i am upto and be a little mysterious.

Insecure girls hate it, confident girls love mystery.

[EvilAngel114]

Why compete for someone? Don’t make yourself an option…find someone that only has eyes for you. I’ve always said it’s good to know the difference between fighting for someone vs fighter over someone.

[Nightroads]

Partnerships at that level, love isn't really in the equation at that level. Not that it dosen't exist, but love can mean being rejected at that level.

#RoyalyF'd.

[Prof_Don]

We as humans are ALWAYS in competition to get and keep our mates.

Embody this inevitable competition , and you will be an even better version of yourself!

[t-8900]

What ever happened to love, loyalty, devotion, oaths, honor, and integrity? Smh the state of things... 😔

[Phoenix98]

I’m not competing for anyone if you want me then you want me I’d you don’t you don’t.

but I am not dealing with that bullshit.

[ChiPaPa]

No idea. I never dated more than one lady at a time.

[Massageman]

I wouldn't know - I'm not wealthy- at least not in the sense of monetary wealth.

[Anonymous]

Only desperate people with a scarcity mindset compete for partners.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I don’t think too often for humans. Pretty much all the time for animals

[Shihab91]

Oh shit... I think i missed the advanced dating class 👀🤣

[crazy8000]

Couldn't care less about others that are interested in.

If I noticed any compilation vibes with someone do they get unattractive ( one in the bunch ) .

[Jerre]

You got me. I’m just a poor boy from Florida

[zagor]

Every day.

[Lonely888]

It happens a lot

[townhouse]

Everyday ur breath or vise via

[Anonymous]

Every minute of every day