You're cute. My first impression of you from this picture? Charming, good smile, nice, and sweet. Girls dig these.
Number 1: Don't be too nice. Be yourself. Set some boundaries for yourself. Girls like guys who can set some boundaries for themselves and don't go out of their way to please the girl.
Number 2: Please do not turn into an asshole. It'd be a shame. Girls DON'T like jerks. They like REAL guys. Be authentic. Only fake bitches and immature girls like jerks. Start dating real, down-to-earth people
Number 3: Don't let anyone walk over you. That is never okay.
Number 4: No, don't lose those glasses. You kind of look like Harry Potter, but a cuter version of him.
Number 5: There are some people who do not deserve your niceness, learn to spot them. Most girls prefer a gentleman.
Number 6: No, you do not want to be the other guy. I understand that you're hurt, but there are good women out there. Just because some apples are bad, doesn't mean that all apples in the basket are.
Number 7: Hit the gym if you want to feel confident, but do it for yourself, not for others. You look cute as you are though.
Why do you want asshole girls?
The whole "girls are into assholes" is a bit of a misnomer. Women are attracted to confident, emotionally stable, not liable to be walked all over, dare I say masculine, men. It just so happens that the "assholes" have those traits in spades, and I'd wager a lot of men who don't have those traits perceive those traits as inherently assholish.
Unfortunately, I don't exactly have good advice on how to change your mindset like that. Best I can say is develop yourself. Get a skillset or a hobby or something that you can devote yourself to and build that up. It'll raise your status naturally, and it'll help you socially as well, as you can develop confident attitudes about that particular craft, and you'll be able to stand your ground, tell someone that they're wrong, and be able to defend yourself. Once you can do that, you'll be able to carry that mindset into more areas of your life.
tl;dr, build something up and stand up for yourself. Everything else will follow.
When your on a toilet, harness that energy and bring it to your daily life! 😂🤣😂
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dude that's total bullshit. There's a difference between being an asshole and a beta simp loser. Learn the difference.
I am sorry for you though, when I was in high school and college it was soooo much easier to get a girlfriend or just to get laid. Before 2016 and all the retarded woke garbage everything was so much better. Less censorship less surveillance less screenshots and hacking, more privacy, less police. Tinder used to be a paradise. School was great for a time. I'd say 2015-2016 was the last year of things being great. Sucks for people now. Best of luck
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If you think you are good stay away from relationships coz it's usually the good guy women want then they feel they are too good they want a bit of a bad boy so you see you are good enough but not good enough for a women so yeah take a break focus on your self your money and live free man, if you are nice it's not that you can just become Jason serial killer in one night it will be unnatural for you and you won't feel comfortable and it won't work
Bro if that's you in the picture...
Than you better be the boyfriend because you are cute...
Girls smash the asshole.. Because they see 0 chance of relationship with those losers..
And he becomes a social dildo..
He does not knows her favorite color or how to comfort her when she is sad and ton of other stuff..
You have to be a nice guy trust me
Being an Asshole won’t bring you nothing back a girl will stop messaging initiating because she is going to think you don’t care. So be nice for sure
Girls however have to be a little bitchy to show the guy what’s he is losing. But guys can’t be bitchy ! Remember women don’t fuck the guy the guy fucks the women / gotta think a little old as a grandpa sometimes to get the hints 😌
You can't be someone your not it ain't in your personality. I mean you can be an actor and pretend to be a jerk. But it's better to jus be yourself. There's girls out there who like nice guys anyway. You probably jus haven't found her yet. But my biggest suspicion is your jus making some kind of mistake with girls. Like maybe saying something wrong. Try to reflect on yourself and imagine yourself from the girls point of view and see where your going wrong and why she isn't attractee to you
You don't need to be an asshole for people to stop taking advantage of you. Just learn how to establish boundaries. Actual nice guys > assholes any day
What makes her so damn special, huh? There are better girls out there and she must know who's her lord and master, it's you, so don't be a soyboy around them. Maybe look for girls from other ethnicities to gain confidence first. They tend to like guys who look like you over the more masculine-looking kind.
1. Why are you using a random picture of a guy who isn't you?
2. Taken advantage of? You met the wrong women
3. Nice guys >>> assholes
4. Why is losing the glasses and getting a shape a big deal?
Don't be an asshole. Be the best version of yourself as you can. This will serve you well for the rest of your life.
Wtf those girls are bitches who dislikes nice guys.
They're undeserving of your niceness.
Many girls wants a gentleman and a cute one.
be confident in your actions, let her know what you want but don't be to eager to please. and it certainly doesn't hurt to get in shape.
Girls hate whimp's and indecisiveness. Take charge and stop letting yourself get walked on.
You shouldn't desire to be a bad guy. You just need boundaries. Learn to respect yourself.
Girls don't want assholes, that is just a silly myth.
Where did you hear that girls like assholes?
Establish boundaries. Say no when you want to.
No one is into assholes.
Nice guys get girls that want to marry.
How long was your longest relationship?
Dang you cute
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