(im not sure if that’s genuine or not, she did say that night she has a daughter, a part time job and studying in college)
✔️Okay I met this woman at a party and we were having fun, dancing, about her and life in general, we sat down and held hands and cuddled together, we french kissed like 3 times - and we’re on the couch but every few minutes someone would come in dancing or turning up the music so we weren’t alone for long
✔️ anyways we were cuddling away and she said she’s tired and said she better go to bed, she’s staying over at her friends house which is where we were, and she’s sleeping in her best friends bed with her friend, so I don’t know… should she invited me to her bed or would that of been weird as her best friend is sleeping in the same bed?
✔️ She blew me a kiss goodbye and then went upstairs and as soon as she went up stairs she added me on Facebook do you think she likes me or just was drunk and that’s it she said why am I so great and handsome and all that but I don’t know… any advice thanks
✔️We were chatting today on Facebook for a bit and I said something like when do I get to see them pretty eyes as she wore contacts and didn’t see her real eyes and she said
Not sure now. With all studies i have so less free time🤦♀️and said, after Halloween party all my doors and windows are locked😂 and I just said aw no worries all all 😂
Was this party last night? If so, give it time, Speedy. On one hand, you got pretty damn far for a first meeting thing!! I only got that far three times with a girl I just met! (I went to see The Fixx and we met after the show in the line to get autographs and, after the show, I walked her back home, at least 2 miles away, and, when we got there, we were saying goodnight and ended up kissing VERY romantically out in the drizzle but, although we set up a time to meet again the next afternoon, she only showed long enough to start packing because she'd suddenly decided to move! I never saw her again!) In another incident, I was kinda following a girl I thought was really cute and pretty and ended up walking her to the bus station about a mile away where I sat with her while she waited for her bus and, we hugged and kissed before she left and even gave me her address but, that's as far as that ever went, too. The first time was during one of our gigs. We were taking a break after our first set and I was sitting next to this girl I'd never met before a few moments later when she turned to me and said something in my right ear but, because the jukebox was BLASTING loud off to my left, I couldn't hear what she said. I turned to her and said, "What?" and she French kissed me!! At the end of the night, we got all packed up and ready to go and I was waiting for the rest of the band to finally get ready to leave and, while waiting, I sat and talked with her and we started making out pretty heavily! The band left without me!! I don't drive and she left shortly after with the guy she came with and I ended up spending the night at the bartender's place a few blocks away! We talked on a phone a couple times after that and then she moved to N. Y. and I've never heard from her since! Anyway, there IS a chance yours WAS a momentary, booze-induced fling (I've never seen more than a few minutes of it before last night but, try checking out the movie, "Sex & The Single Girl".)
But, it also COULD be that there IS a spark there but, she's actually just too busy to fan the flame, right now. Keep in touch with her but, don't be a pest and chase her away. Find out if she has a time when she's online and is free to chat for a while and chat her up during that span of time a couple times a week so you can get to know each other better. During these chats, ask her out and see if you can continue what you started "last night".
Dude! What are you worrying about man! 😅 This girl definitely likes you. There is no rejection in her WHATSOEVER. She didn't invite you up to bed partly because it was her friend's spot... but also...
At least for me... If I was thinking of pursuing something with a girl... I would prefer that she didn't fuck random dudes she met at parties (which is essentially what you were the first night you met). I think you WANT the girl who who doesn't invite you to bed that first night at that party. I wouldn't in any way interpret that as a rejection.
It sounds like things went about as well as anyone could possibly ask for (assuming you're thinking "potential relationship").
Maybe after she recovered herself up and got all her senses back after the tipsiness she realised what she did and then tried to wipe up the destruction left behind. (I hope you could get what I just wrote LOL😅🤦)
But related to the drunkard talk, there's what I found on a website:
"A drunken man's words are a sober man's thoughts."
"That stuff is booze talking," Mee said. "It amplifies your basic personality. … If you are a high-strung person, it's going to amplify that, and all the bad things are going to come out."
"The person you know is very different than the person you see when they're drinking you might be quicker to say what you're thinking, now you might also be reacting to something in your life and be angry about something and you don't really mean it but you blurt it out," Stratyner said. "Alcoholics don't think before they speak, whatever's on their lungs is on their tongues," Stratyner said.
Belisa Vranich, a clinical psychologist who specializes in alcohol addiction, said that in many cases alcohol doesn't actually speak for the drunken person, but gives the person the confidence to say things he normally wouldn't.
Alcohol affects the top of the brain known as the cerebral cortex, which is what makes a person more likely to act and speak in ways he or she may not when sober, Vranich said.
This can lead to something innocent, like being more funny or more quiet, or it can lead to aggressive behavior and a loss of sexual discretion.
Well, after all the research what I could conclude is that maybe she did reject you in a soft way.
But-
The drunkard talk was true! She was honest about all that.
*Alternative Circumstance: She could have felt embarrassment over what she did and then shied away...
Well, in my humble opinion I'd say you caught her attention at the very least.
But it really depends, because every women are different. It's true that in some aspects mostly of us can relate to (women).
Like some women are in the more outgoing side and would like a lot of guy photos even though they aren't really interested (or maybe they're just flirty)
Other women are more introverted, so they wouldn't like someone's photo unless they have an established relationship (whether romantic or friendly).
And there are women more shy that wouldn't allow themselves to just like their crush's photo (unless if that was an accident LOL), but as the mentioned above the shier ones would begin to like someone's photo the moment they felt a firm relationship enough to feel comfortable.
So that really depends entirely and solely on her personality. I can't just give you a straight answer, sorry.
If I'm talking for me I wouldn't like someone's photo unless I'm already friends with them.
P. S.:
You did say that she liked on FB a random's photo of yours. If by "random" you mean an 'old' photo, so usually people just do that if they have enough enterest on someone that would even pulled them to keep on scrooling someone's whole profile.
But it can also means that they are just a curious person by nature.
I'd say to wait a little to see the things unfold and have more assurance.
You can try message her sometime and see her response. If she still says she's busy so she's probably not so into you, because if you're interest in someone you'd spare time to them even though you're busy.
Honestly? Sounds like a rejection.. People use that "too busy" excuse instead of admitting they're just not interested. If you really want to be with someone, there's ways to make time for them... I worked, took care of my two children, my sick husband which included many doctor visits and ICU stays and still was able to make time for the people that were important to me... Why I get irritated when people use that "they're so busy/too busy" excuse when they could just be upfront and honest🤷
I I think it was just a learning experience it was just alcohol and it kind of depends on how much was consumed and by whom. I don't think I've ever worry about it I would think about it but I wouldn't worry about it whatever happens happens. But it has to be both of your choices at the same time try it again but without the alcohol
Hard to say , but Id suggest its still " Open " I wouldn't give up , wouldn't hold my breathe either , sounds like soft rejection , but Id just keep in touch and see how it rides ( without pushing the point ) , these things change quickly. She was all over you and for some weird reason had second thoughts , but I reckon the window is still open , leave it for a little , as they say " set free " and see what happens.
It’s true some people make excuses but being a student myself it’s possible that she really is just really busy, school can really screw with a person’s dating life as I am painfully aware of. Also, if she’s raising a daughter and working it may be that she wants to date you but just can’t do it realistically. Its too bad she didn’t realize this before showing interest in you but the heart wants what the heart wants, even if it isn’t always practical.
- should she invited me to her bed or would that of been weird as her best friend is sleeping in the same bed?
Absolutely NOT. Not her place, not even separate beds. Do you think it makes sense to do it on her friend's bed, while she's right there? 🤣
As if she's being truthful about her daughter, school and others... there's no way to know for sure if you barely know her, you could give it more time if you really like this girl. It's way too soon to judge if she's being honest.
Yeah if she isn’t enthusiastic about seeing you again it sounds like she isn’t that interested to, I’m sorry :( I think most girls would respond in a way that would show they have some availability if they’re interested.
“Not sure now” and “studies” sounds Genuine. If she was rejecting you she would not have given you the opportunity to talk on Facebook. Don’t ask again about seeing her. Let her bring it up!
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