I have two crushes, and I still like both of them after comparing about each of them, what do I do?

[LOSTCROW]

I like these two guys, and I still like both of them despite one not really knowing me, and the other being a closer friend. I compare their personalities and what I like about them, and I still like both of them. I'm friends with their friends, since they have a lot of the same friends, and I have one of my crushes phone numbers, mainly for study reasons. I get nervous with the one who doesn't really know me, as I had to ask him to move (specifically, "excuse me") and just got oddly nervous, but thankfully he heard and moved over. Anyways back to the main focus. I can't really talk to the one who doesn't really know me, we'll call him T, since he has no classes with me, and T has popular friends who annoy me. The other crush, we'll call him O, is way closer with me and seems to care about me, because he helps me when my other friends annoy me. But I still get butterflies when I see both of them. Today, O gave me a hug, which honestly made my day,

I need some help, what should I do?

[caring__1]

At your age, the object is to observe and learn, not to limit your experiences by committing to one. It's OK to have many friends. Don't rush into things you may not be prepared to handle.

You say you like these guys. Start making a list of what draws you to guys and how those particular aspects impact you now and in your future. Also make a list of what you don't like in people and how those things impact you. Keep adding to the lists, and read them on a regular basis. That way, you'll be able to see people as whole packages rather than just settling for superficial things like body parts.

Yes, you are young, and it important to enjoy your youth, but make sure the choices you make take you forward rather than hold you back.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, are you insistent on doing something exclusive? Are they? A lot of what dating consists of, particularly in the early stages, is just doing stuff you both enjoy together. If you're unsure of which direction to go in, you can probably make small steps towards both without committing to anything, to get a better idea of who you enjoy spending time with more.

[abby17dmv]

I think you should choose O because one you are more close with O and besides he did give you a hug and always makes you happy ,

[20yearsolder]

Sounds to me like you need to pursue Q. You do know that you can go up and hug him as well

[Neosporin]

Keep flirting with both eventually one of them will play out better.

[anmari2001]

Put them in a maze, who exit first is your man

[KostasKouvalis]

I'm glad you haven't lost your sense of humor

[anmari2001]

@KostasKouvalis sure... I was joking

[Avicenna]

This is easy- ask O out.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ask them to go horse riding with you. If you ride?

[bgreek]

Your best bet is O