Teenagers ARE clingy. How on earth did you think it was going to work out? 17 year olds are not mature enough for a relationship with an adult.
I get it, you do not want to sound like an asshole for breaking up with her right after having sex, but better late than never! If you continue this, you would lead her on. She would become more emotionally attached to you and it would be harder for her to move on. But its fine, break up with her now
Morally, it’s wrong, because you are in two different worlds. She’s still a child in her formative years, and you’re a grown man to whom she clearly doesn’t matter. Better let her down gently and save her from yourself.
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I don't actually mind teaching guys, better than guys who think they already know the best way to do things and won't listen to me.
The big downside to virgins or less inexperienced is they are more likely to get attached to me and think I'm their forever partner.
Yup. That's wrong dude. It may be legal. But it's wrong. Let her go. She's not even someone you really want. This means more to her than to you (one of the many reasons it's wrong). You're going to hurt her. Sooner is better than waiting.
If it’s legal where you are then I don’t really see anything wrong with it , If you both have great chemistry and connection than that’s all that matters , Age really doesn’t mean shit when you have great chemistry and connection. It only means something when their age is of illegal age , cuz if you think about it , when we meet someone attractive that catches are eyes in public and we have the courage to approach the. m to strike up a conversation it’s them , their age is the last thing we are thinking about , We don’t walk up to someone and say How old are you lol , if you do then you should probably work on your game more lol I have met girls from all ages that I thought were beautiful that caught my eye but the attraction became more when we both realized we have great chemistry and connection together , the topic of age comes up later in the conversation and yes it might come as a shock to you both of you find out you 2 have an age gap , but as long as you are both are of legal age that’s all that matters , I am not all of a sudden going to hate the girl because I am older or younger than her , so that’s why age really means shit to me , I have met younger girls that were more mature than girls my age , so again chemistry and connection is where it’s at.
Gross. Your que that she is a child is the fact that she didn’t know what to do.
Legally ok but that’s a really big age gap. And 17 yr olds are young. Maybe too young for sex with an older man. But still legal as long as she’s voluntarily into you.
Why did you get with her in the first place?
If you're complaining about the sex that must have been pretty much your only motivation in the first place?
Tbh, your situation sounds kind of ideal. A submissive sex bot to train up how you see fit. At least from the sex side, you could have a lot of fun with her.
But yeah, she's a person. So you should at least treat her right and be honest from the start.
My opinion is that yes she maybe over the legal age of consent. BUT she clearly is STILL a child. I was with a 28yr old when I was 17 & I still acted like a kid. I think you’re trying to make her grow up too fast. As mean as I may seem. You’re better off with someone you’re own age. What do you have in common with a 17yr old? This ain’t gonna work I’m afraid.
I don't know what there's to complain about.. when I would go out with 17 yr olds, I was more than happy to take the reigns.
I'm not gonna go into the legalities or morality of this since it's in another country. But man, be at least grateful someone allowed you their pussy. lol
Depends what the genders are.. if. the woman is 27 and man is 17.. that's fine to society... But if genders are switched around people will call the guy a pedo... That's jus the way it is.. guys are demonized sexually like we're all pervs... While girls are let off the hook
*me, being 16 and trying to get with my 56 year old guitar teacher*. *Slowly scoots away*
From somebody who's older and may not have long to live -The world is going to shit fast. Fuck what everybody thinks if she's happy and you're happy. There's not a goddamned thing they can do about it. Don't get rid of her if she's a good person, cares about you, and is not crazy. In a couple years the age difference won't matter. She's obviously not a girl who just gives herself away or else she would be more experienced. Don't take her giving herself to you lightly.
Not necessarily right or wrong in general but going by what you write I think it's wrong in your case. You seem to have no understanding and patience for her and have already regrets just because she's no porn star at 17 in bed. You're probably the exact opposite of what she hopes for when going for someone older so this will never work out
Well at 27 needing to ask the internet and having no respect for her, I would say dump her and leave her alone.
she’s going to be better off without you
It seems nasty from most people prospective including mine, but if it’s legal and she makes you happy don’t let what others think about it stop you. We do not know anything about your relationship.
Both of you should be with people similar to your own ages, especially for her. She needs to be with someone close to her mental maturity. And why are you going after a child in the first place?
OK OK then im 23 going for a 18 year old fight me society! Fuck your standards. I prefer younger guys all day
well thats the thing with dating younger women... some are very mature but you may have found one that isn't... let her down gently though coz its not her fault
Ewwww. What did you expect? Nothing wrong with her, but I wonder about you. Which one of you started it? How did you imagine this would work? She’s still in high school. Why aren’t you dating adults?
I'd be hard pressed to give a crap tbh. Society has really abandoned all traditional values at this point and you're all basically insects or rodents desperately mating with each other in my eyes.
Whatever works for ya. I think there's something wrong with you, but whatever. Don't reference age of consent. That's fkn dumb. Laws are arbitrary dictates used to control a society, not measures of ethics
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