Our self esteem is tricky. Some people have low self confidence about their appearance and others are delusional. I’ve met plenty of insecure yet fairly attractive women. I’ve also men BBW girls who were absolutely delusional.
Bottom line it never hurts just to say hello to someone. Maybe they are interested. Maybe they aren’t. However you will miss every shot you don’t take.
No chance, I don't believe I have a chance with every female I talk to. I talk to females out of my league or not. Thats being friendly. Sometimes The beautiful people need to talk too
No, not for me the attractive people I know and see aren’t attractive, they only have looks and there behavior and attitude towards others isn’t attractive, so I don’t approach persons that are gods looking, always a disappointment when you get to see the real them than just physical attributes
Believe it or not guys only care when they are looking for a date or what not. The other 90% of the time men don't give a crap who looks at them because they are focused on whatever it is they are doing.
It's not a personal thing, it's just not always on our minds.
I'm always nice to everyone, so it shouldn't matter what they look like and if life is good to you, you'll meet someone that will treat you the way you want. But life can be unfair, just be happy with yourself, don't worry about what other people think.
You have got a long way to go when it comes to building up confidence and self esteem. It's your attitude that will determine your altitude, what you're able to accomplish, the kind of partners you're worthy of attracting.
It's difficult but the inner work will help you shine on outside.
No. I generally think I have a chance with everyone. It might be 0.01% but that's still better than the odds given to people who play the lottery, and I don't play the lottery because the odds are too poor. But I'll hit on a supermodel.
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I don’t. When I come across pretty girls/women in public, but I absolutely do not look at them. Most are narcissists and obsessed with themselves.
Same with men! You're so right, attractive people mostly are narcissists.
Our self esteem is tricky. Some people have low self confidence about their appearance and others are delusional. I’ve met plenty of insecure yet fairly attractive women. I’ve also men BBW girls who were absolutely delusional.
Bottom line it never hurts just to say hello to someone. Maybe they are interested. Maybe they aren’t. However you will miss every shot you don’t take.
No chance, I don't believe I have a chance with every female I talk to. I talk to females out of my league or not. Thats being friendly. Sometimes The beautiful people need to talk too
Yeah.
I don't bother talking to any women at this point. I assume I don't have a chance with any of them anymore.
That's sad honestly, I hope you feel better soon.
I've never likes attractive people, no offense to anyone, they rub me the wrong way, being around them kills whatever confident I've built up
Same
I'll give attention to anyone but I won't hit on people who are clearly out of my league. Unless I'm really drunk, obviously.
Nicem
I say is what is attractive to1 is ugly to another.
But I notice to women, it is theor age and time of month.
Maybe so.
I try to pay attention to everyone, tho I admit it is hard to approach someone who I find I would never have a chance with.
Yeahh
Yeah I never interact with attractive people and they don’t with me either. Just avoided eye contact always
That's me!
No, not for me the attractive people I know and see aren’t attractive, they only have looks and there behavior and attitude towards others isn’t attractive, so I don’t approach persons that are gods looking, always a disappointment when you get to see the real them than just physical attributes
Believe it or not guys only care when they are looking for a date or what not. The other 90% of the time men don't give a crap who looks at them because they are focused on whatever it is they are doing.
It's not a personal thing, it's just not always on our minds.
I'm always nice to everyone, so it shouldn't matter what they look like and if life is good to you, you'll meet someone that will treat you the way you want. But life can be unfair, just be happy with yourself, don't worry about what other people think.
You have got a long way to go when it comes to building up confidence and self esteem. It's your attitude that will determine your altitude, what you're able to accomplish, the kind of partners you're worthy of attracting.
It's difficult but the inner work will help you shine on outside.
I mean yeah if you know a person too out of my league I wouldn't waste time on them if I am sure I am going to get rejected
Yeah you get me!
No I do it just to show them I don’t give af about their looks you’re getting treated like everyone else
Yes indeed
No. I generally think I have a chance with everyone. It might be 0.01% but that's still better than the odds given to people who play the lottery, and I don't play the lottery because the odds are too poor. But I'll hit on a supermodel.
(1) Stick to people around your own age (2) Pick wisely and ALWAYS be safe and mutually consensual.
Thank you!!!
You're welcome!
As a guy yes because don’t have a taste and a guy can change her mind,
Indeed
I’ll take a chance and kick the tires see if their into me.
Can't relate but you go girl
In my case, even if I took a look on some normal lady/woman I was scared 2 approach her, so..
That's sad.
True, but that's life.