s Maybe focus on learning to drive and your career first before you worry about finding love. Not saying it is important to all girls, but it will certainly increase your chances. Most importantly, regardless of finding love, those things will benefit you a ton. You don't need to be a successful CEO, you just need to show you aren't unmotivated to do anything.
After that, it's just making the best of your opportunities. You don't need to hit a quota of women. You just need to be really intriguing to one. What are you bringing to the table? A sense of humor, an amazing physique, incredible brilliance or just anything that makes you really stand out as an option. What are some of your best qualities? Focus on showcasing them while you work on your deficiencies.
Stop chasing women dude, this is a waste of time, if you continue on this pattern you'll end up alone in life because no woman wants to be with a guy who seems a little desperate. You have to work on yourself, improve your qualities. minimize your weak points and certainly you won't need to seek women to talk, they'll talk to you instead. Being honest with you bro, how can you expect to to talk to women if you don't have an interesting life? No woman will have desire to talk to you.
I also like computers, reading nerdy stuff, but I also do exercise, I trying as much as possible to learn new things and finding women to talk naturally happens. There is a saying that says that the more you want something, the more it run away from you. Work on your career, work on your body and fiz your problems, Life will grant you with female attention if this is what you want.
I stopped looking for romantic prospects months ago. I hit 24 and realized most women have likely had like 6 boyfriends let alone sexual partners by my age and I'm most likely a hopeless lost cause.
I've come to learn how to focus myself more on the things I take pride and joy out of in my life and value my friendships and platonic connections with the women in my life more than anything in order to focus myself away from that crippling despair and sense of loserdom and being so perpetually and romantically and sexually unsuccessful and knowing it's too late now. In terms of regular friends? I actually have a much smaller social circle than most people seem to assume I have but actually most of my friends are indeed women and I talk to probably 5 or 6 on a regular (daily to weekly) basis.
It only takes one...
The right approach to the right girl.
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You only need to talk to one, it just needs to be the right one!
be yourself but don’t keep calling yourself a nerdy guy, that tends to sound like a negative trait. Some girls will actually find that attractive
The more you talk to the higher chance of getting one to sleep with you. You'll get rejected more, but by sheer number you would get some to say yes to sex.
As many you can until you have enough data for yourself that what worked for you and at that point your average may start going down. Means 1 in 1000 to 1 in 500 to 1 in 50 to 1 in 10?
u forget about women
focus on your issues and solve them
It's not a matter of numbers, but a matter of talking to the RIGHT girl. The more you talk to, the more likely you'll find the right girl.
You don't breed, full stop.
You only really get into a relationship when you have something to give. You sound like another mom is what you're looking for.
Be opportunistic and strike up convos when the opportunity arises
Why are you not working on your career? Didn't you graduate?
one in the right place
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