Would you go on dates with someone while they still actively maintained a friend with benefits?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Aerissa_Jade]

I'd have no idea if he had a friends with benefits when we first start dating, or if I had one he would have no idea.

Dating though is a little different than being in a relationship, I have dated multiple guys at once, but never more than one boyfriend at a time. If I have a boyfriend, then I only date him.

The real problem though is if someone does have a friends with benefits, if they'd stop once you get committed, especially if you didn't even know about it.

[Anonymous]

I have before, We use to hang out, And fuck,

and i know danm well i wasant the only guy she was fucking, Their was more than 1 she was seeing regularly.

She kept screwing other guys. Until her and I started to get serious.

It stopped, And we are still together.
I basically took her from the other guys.

out of all of them, She probably spent the most time with me. And caught feelings.

we use to hang out, And do things,
not just have sex. Id take her on dates just me and her

[OlderAndWiser]

No. I don't want to date a woman who views sex as a recreational activity rather than a means of expressing love in a committed relationship.

[Neko_Nya]

Oof you probably don't think much of me then lol

[OlderAndWiser]

@Neko_Nya Your behavior will change as you acquire more experiences.

[Neko_Nya]

Mmm I dunno I've been ahem bumping up the numbers for a good few years now lolz

[Dinklex3]

If we're going on "dates" then we're getting to know more about each other and seeing how we mesh. If we aren't in a committed relationship yet and haven't had that talk, then yes I would.
I never date random people though. We have to be somewhat friends or acquaintances before I go on a date.
If it's early and feelings aren't quite clear, then i don't see an issue.

[ZackBan]

Honestly i never asked the girls I date if or not they have a side piece because usually I'm not looking something serious and would rather live out the experience without worrying about who else and doing what.

But if I decided to date someone with the prospect of a relationship and she wants too yeah FWBs will have to stop I don't share like that.

[lovedejj_xo]

If I knew no….. that actually happened to me. My ex was hooking up with a girl while we were going on dates which I didn’t know, he finally asked me out and stopped talking to her. 9 months later she’s banging on his door while I’m at his apartment and she’s saying she’s pregnant, she has the baby it looks exactly like him. I ended up leaving him.

[grierwrange]

We’re there any red flags?

[lovedejj_xo]

Yes which I look back on now.

[ranvjsc]

I have voted for no because I know I will get jealous or insecure about it. But it really depends on person to person if that person is okay with it.


Plus, I don’t think it is a good idea to tell the partner s/he is having friends with benefits if he or she didn’t ask it.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I wouldn't.

If he wants to have sex with someone else, while dating, then he's not for me.

[Leonharted]

Not unless it was as a favor to them. But I also would never be friends with benefits.

[exitseven]

Maybe for a little while to see what she is like. If I really liked her she would have to drop the friend with benefits.

[clampfan101]

Absolutely not. If they want me, they need to want no one else in their sex life.
Opposite gender friends are fine. Just no "benefits" like that.

[MelonSoda]

No, if we're dating, you better cut ties with your side bitch.

[Miristheiss]

100% no.
I would never date anyone who is having sex with someone else.

[donnny2367764]

Yes but make sure you fuck her better than the other dude, otherwise you will be useless to her sooner than later

[charmecho]

I mean it depends on how many dates. If it is like a first date you guys are probs not exclusive to one another at that point. If it is like date 5 or something then I would have answered no

[yucel_eden]

Only if my interest was to fuck em…


For real dating, nah

[IncognitoBandito]

Sure, especially if they were willing to share details.

[lilith98]

The question is why would they go for a serious relationship if they have a friend with benefit?

[InYourHead]

Yea. Guys have dated me while I have FWBs

[cjs31380]

For how long?

[InYourHead]

I don't really date anyone for more than Couple months tops. At my age I'm not looking for any long term commitment

[cjs31380]

But when you do date you date multiple guys at the same time

[InYourHead]

Not every time but I have

[cjs31380]

And most of the guys are okay with it

[InYourHead]

Yea or they wouldn't date me

[cjs31380]

I think it's becoming more of a common thing nowadays

[boobliker]

you would not know so why not?

[jahaims]

Definitely not. I have self respect

[Kiran_Yagami]

Yes, but we'd be splitting the check.

[whosnumber1]

it would depend on our relationship.

[midnightmoon05]

No no and no