Would you be embarrassed to be with me in public?

[Anonymous]

Like many others I gained a lot of weight during the last two years and lately becuase my sizes go up and down as I try and sometimes fail to lose weight, I dress mostly for comfort when I’m not working, my boyfriend now says he’s embarrassed to be seen with me as my casual day to day outfits make me look like a slob and it reflects on him yet won’t tell me what he’d find more suitable

[Honesttguy]

What he would find more suitable is if u lost that weight jezz u need a wake up call.
Modern life privileged problems.
It definitely reflects on him, i lost all respect for him right now just, he have no self respect, no ability to lead, fuking hell no balls on that guy. Is he a women?

[Hotboy_booblover]

U do look big.. but I won't get embarrassed with u in public bcoz u r a person with different body type and personality.. nothing to be embarrassed about

[Hotboy_booblover]

Thanks for MHO 🙂

[Hotboy_booblover]

Can u follow me.. I want to message u

[Aerissa_Jade]

What's the deal with people blaming covid for gaining weight, I've actually LOST weight by working from home the last two years.

[Sarah6h8888666]

No, I would not be embarassed!! Do not be silly.

[VikingWarLord]

You already know the answer, just get on a diet already, I'd fast myself to the BONE before I got overweight. Here is how simple it is below

1. Intermittent Fasting
2. Drink a half gallon to gallon of water per day
3. Take 5,000 Steps per day (count them out while walking, it makes it go faster)
4. Stop eating junk food

[notawomanagod]

it's giving anorexia

[Asker]

The question wasn’t if I’m fat and need to lose weight (I already acknowledged both of those things and am working on it).

[notawomanagod]

asker trust me girl you don't wanna be seen in public with him you'd probably end up in a suitcase

[VikingWarLord]

@notawomanagod oh ya

[notawomanagod]

the f in funny if for females because i have never met a man who has made me laugh

[cryscrys1]

Fasting would never give you anorexia. You have enough fat storage to fast for months. You have to do your own research. With your obesity you can do OMAD like fats 23 hours and eat in 1 hr window 500calories is possible little af food. Or do periodically fasting longer hours like 48 hours fast eat one day only and repeat/ a body as yours would never get anorexia ever. You can look up doctors who talk about it like dr Berg etc.
do cardio. Start to lose weight soon I don’t give a fuck about your boyfriend or your guys you can die anytime your health is in risk. Love yourself first who gives a shit if your boyfriend is ashamed of you drop his ass now and HEAL YOURSELF asap.

To answer your qs if he is ashamed of you make yourself a favor and leave him. You need to be with someone WHO motivates you exercise… motivates you fix yourself. And not out you down by saying he is ashamed of you. Don’t be with him.

[HarryFortis]

I won't be embarrassed. But you seriously need to start diet and working out right NOW

[andreasderjuengere]

I would not even be with you even ''in private''.
Matter settled.
I wish for you that you'll soon get a grip on your life again, though.

[Avicenna]

Well, if you were my girlfriend I wouldn't treat you any differently just because you gained weight.

[Drumlin2001]

The tops OK, not keen on trousers, just personal taste. Some plain black bottles maybe better

[Drumlin2001]

Bottoms, not bottles...

[Chthou95]

Why do you put yourself through this misery knowing most people are going to say yes?

[awkward_author]

As a friend? Not really. Partner? Yes.

[Fuentes]

I would not be dating you

[WhiteBoyChill]

To be perfectly honest, I wouldn’t date you.

[Iron_Man]

No let’s party

[MJtheCoach]

Definitely

[Adam_West]

fuck yeah

[devoygf]

yes I would

[Anonymous]

Yes I would

[Asker]

Thank you for your honesty. Is it just the weight or?