Something along the lines of the girl in the picture. Anything more than that looks two made up and like she would be high maintenance. Plus, I don't want to have to put in that much effort. I'd much rather have things casual.
no such thing, I go with what feels right in the scenario. i met my fiance first time, after talking a few times, we toured a city all day. she is a fellow GAGer.
Basically consider the location. You wouldn’t show up to a job interview with a major company in anything but business attire… you wouldn’t wear business attire to your kids soccer game either. Dress for the job you want is a metaphor for show up looking like what you think guys you want want. They ain’t gonna look for anything long term and quality from someone that looks like she gives handjobs in the bathroom at the bar.
I know there’s different bars - I’m a bar manager. Not gonna take me to a sports bar and honestly I don’t see much difference in what I’d wear to the rest.
What’s you? All I’m implying is over dressing looks one way and under dressing looks another. The location, what your looking for… This is complicated so try and keep up.
How would you feel if a man asked you out to a top quality suit and tie restaurant and wore jeans and a tee? I’m assuming you’d be embarrassed. How would you feel about a man that took you do a basic bar and wore a suit? Probably not as judgy but Ide guess it would make him look arrogant. What would you think of a man that showed up to a date dressed in pants that are so holy you’d think the pope blessed them? Low quality? Lazy? Doesn’t value you or your time? Now since women don’t look at sex the same from a man’s perspective… men don’t date women in miniskirts and tube tops… they fuck em. There’s no respect to be given such animals. Bitches in heat nothing more. A good fuck. Men love this they want it they want their wives to do this for them in the bedroom not for strangers in public.
Simplified… Consider who your dating, what your looking for, the time and the place…
@VanillaSalt chill. You’re massively overthinking a very simple question unnecessarily. I also don’t appreciate the way you’re describing women, so leave it out.
@Blonde401 honestly girly… idc if you like what I’m saying. Your success or failure have no real baring on me… that being said ask the guys here if anything I just said was a lie. Also if your taking offense ide reread the whole thing. You misunderstood something somewhere. Find the offensive part look at it from a different context and get back to me if you wish…
Also if it’s so single why can’t you manage the decision on your own?
Only a fool would ignore sound advice because they don’t like the person or what they gotta say. But you’ll step into it in your own. It might take a little longer but ah well. You still haven’t asked any of the guys what they think about my advice.
You come on here to ask men a question and because you don’t like the advice you throw it back in their face. Then when they tell you you misunderstood them and how to understand their comment you got angry and said you don’t need to, paraphrasing here, understand them… I think I found out why you’ve been single for the last 6 years blonde… another trust and yet you’re going to get offended… have a a nice day blonde and good luck on your date.
@VanillaSalt where was I angry? I was single by choice actually. I decided to take a break from dating for a number of reasons but I don’t owe you an explanation.
You’re a misogynist with a frighteningly high opinion of yourself. You’re on someone else’s comment thread and why would anyone else give a damn what you think? Bye.
Something comfortable, appropriate for the weather. NO HIGH HEELS - we might decide to walk somewhere.
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Should wear: Anything that shows your ass and it's shape and your legs Should NOT wear: Loose clothing that does not show anything
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Think you should wear a tight black skirt white shirt showing nice view of your breast no panties heels sitting in his view cross your leg nice swing to get him notice while talking swing leg giving snap shot of your pussy
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A nice cocktail dress or jeans with heels and a Nice blouse
Something along the lines of the girl in the picture. Anything more than that looks two made up and like she would be high maintenance. Plus, I don't want to have to put in that much effort. I'd much rather have things casual.
I would wear a mini dress and heels. 👌🏾
This is what I was thinking! Finally someone who agrees ☺️
Hahaha 💜
nothing.
I wouldn't go on a drinks date.
That’s fair, they’re not for everyone. What’s your ideal casual first date?
no such thing, I go with what feels right in the scenario. i met my fiance first time, after talking a few times, we toured a city all day. she is a fellow GAGer.
No such thing as a casual first date? You sound intense 😅
no such thing as "ideal":)
No such thing as an ideal date or an ideal casual date?
What type of place are you going to?
A bar
Lol okay... could you be more specific?
Not 100% set on the place yet. Not sure how specific you need me to be?
Well there are: sports bars, wine bars, dive bars, speakeasies...
Basically consider the location. You wouldn’t show up to a job interview with a major company in anything but business attire… you wouldn’t wear business attire to your kids soccer game either. Dress for the job you want is a metaphor for show up looking like what you think guys you want want. They ain’t gonna look for anything long term and quality from someone that looks like she gives handjobs in the bathroom at the bar.
I know there’s different bars - I’m a bar manager. Not gonna take me to a sports bar and honestly I don’t see much difference in what I’d wear to the rest.
@VanillaSalt are you implying that’s what I look like?
@Blonde401
Sounds like you're all set then.
What’s you? All I’m implying is over dressing looks one way and under dressing looks another. The location, what your looking for… This is complicated so try and keep up.
How would you feel if a man asked you out to a top quality suit and tie restaurant and wore jeans and a tee? I’m assuming you’d be embarrassed. How would you feel about a man that took you do a basic bar and wore a suit? Probably not as judgy but Ide guess it would make him look arrogant. What would you think of a man that showed up to a date dressed in pants that are so holy you’d think the pope blessed them? Low quality? Lazy? Doesn’t value you or your time? Now since women don’t look at sex the same from a man’s perspective… men don’t date women in miniskirts and tube tops… they fuck em. There’s no respect to be given such animals. Bitches in heat nothing more. A good fuck. Men love this they want it they want their wives to do this for them in the bedroom not for strangers in public.
Simplified… Consider who your dating, what your looking for, the time and the place…
I’m not really, everyone has a different opinion! Alright, if it was like an average bar - nothing too fancy. What would you suggest?
@VanillaSalt chill. You’re massively overthinking a very simple question unnecessarily. I also don’t appreciate the way you’re describing women, so leave it out.
@Blonde401 honestly girly… idc if you like what I’m saying. Your success or failure have no real baring on me… that being said ask the guys here if anything I just said was a lie. Also if your taking offense ide reread the whole thing. You misunderstood something somewhere. Find the offensive part look at it from a different context and get back to me if you wish…
Also if it’s so single why can’t you manage the decision on your own?
@VanillaSalt you have a mighty high opinion of yourself if you think I even remotely thought what you said had any bearing on me.
I don’t need to look for different context and I don’t need someone’s opinion to work it out.
You do realise this is a website that’s entire purpose is to ask questions? I was bored. I asked a question. It ain’t that deep.
Only a fool would ignore sound advice because they don’t like the person or what they gotta say. But you’ll step into it in your own. It might take a little longer but ah well. You still haven’t asked any of the guys what they think about my advice.
You come on here to ask men a question and because you don’t like the advice you throw it back in their face. Then when they tell you you misunderstood them and how to understand their comment you got angry and said you don’t need to, paraphrasing here, understand them… I think I found out why you’ve been single for the last 6 years blonde… another trust and yet you’re going to get offended… have a a nice day blonde and good luck on your date.
@VanillaSalt where was I angry? I was single by choice actually. I decided to take a break from dating for a number of reasons but I don’t owe you an explanation.
You’re a misogynist with a frighteningly high opinion of yourself. You’re on someone else’s comment thread and why would anyone else give a damn what you think? Bye.
Dress for the place you are going. If a fancy place dress appropriately. If a local place and not fancy, dress casual, but clean.
Something comfortable, appropriate for the weather. NO HIGH HEELS - we might decide to walk somewhere.
Should wear: Anything that shows your ass and it's shape and your legs
Should NOT wear: Loose clothing that does not show anything
Think you should wear a tight black skirt white shirt showing
nice view of your breast no panties heels sitting in his view
cross your leg nice swing to get him notice while talking swing
leg giving snap shot of your pussy
Red wine with a white blouse, she's got balls.
depends on where you are going
For drinks in a bar!
If it's a nice fancy bar, then dress nice if it's like a beach bar dress casual
It’s a city centre average bar in England
being overdressed is better than being underdressed
That is true. Thank you!
enjoy yourself
Nothing OTT or too slobbish
What do you consider OTT?
Anything that looks like it's from a stint as a bridesmaid or anything to curb-crawlery
Anything you want. This is not launching a rocket into orbit.
What the girl in the photo is wearing is perfect.
Probably jeans that would be fitting for you
I reckon something casual and conservative.
Anything she wants to wear
body lines should definitely be clear. underwear should be obvious from the outside.
Why should underwear be obvious?
for our imagination
Midi skirt, casual top and a coat. Booty Heels.
Depends where it was!