Do you think it is cheating of your partner considers someone else attractive, even though they never act on those feelings? (Page 3)

[HighValue]

No. It is only cheating when they try to get involved with another person.

[sunflower00]

No, it’s not cheating. I’d rather he didn’t tell me though as it would probably make me compare myself and would upset me a little

[Lauren-green]

No not at all. Everyone has eyes and can admire, but taking any action on those feelings is definitely cheating.

[2Wheels]

No, it's not cheating, but it does really hurt when they keep checking said person out more than once. 💔

[SaoirseS]

No, just because he's taken doesn't mean he's blind. Or dead. He can look and appreciate all he wants. So can I. Neither of us are insecure about it.

[AviatorTom]

Being attracted to someone, if that's all that happens, is not cheating. Cheating requires acting on the attraction in some way.

[exitseven]

Everyone looks and you can find somebody attractive. You could find a movie star attractive too. Whats the difference?

[Anonymous]

No considering someone else attractive when you don’t act is not cheating. My wife has crushes too on actors, a random good looking guy on the mall but never acts on them as her love for me is way more that makes her not act on them. We are all humans, everyone is attracted to more than one person but you spend your life with the person you love and not the person you find most attractive. Attraction wears off but love remains.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

I wouldn't consider it cheating but it would create unnecessary strain on the relationship.

[Likes2drive]

It’s not cheating but some women don’t like wondering eyes since they don’t usually do that themselves but guys are more visually stimulated so that’s what we do but it’s not cheating

[TacosRAwesome]

It's fine if they mention it a few times here and there but if they constantly need to I won't be happy.

[Alyssa_11]

he's allowed to find other people attractive lol. It’s cheating when he does something about it.

[cth96190]

Of course it is not infidelity.
The idea is absurd.

[A_McGyver]

We all consider many people attractive! Me and my wife even know which people each other consider attractive and we make jokes about it. It's normal... you fall in love for one person at a time, but you can like many!

[Guido]

We may be attached but not dead. Looking is only natural for everybody. Look but don't touch (unless you are open and have permission).

[Mangospacho]

Thinking someone is attractive and having feelings for another person is different, or should be, at least.

[clampfan101]

You can only control your actions.
No one should expect their partner to find no one but them attractive. That’s literally impossible.

[AndrewVahalla1987]

No harm in looking/fantasizing as long as you dont act on impulse

[KatherineJ]

No, but there is a way to say that someone is attractive without being obnoxious about it.

[driven159]

there will always be somebody more attractive and uglier than you are at least she is honest with you she looks but don't touch just like males