Is it over if I said I wish I never met you?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, you just started dating and small miscommunication turned into a bigger one because the person dismissed/did not want to respond to address the situation. Emotions got the best of you and you said a few things plus “I wish I never met you”. You didn’t meant it but you said it in the moment.

Days later you send and apology after unblocking them, will you ever be forgiven and get a response or do you think it’s over and you won’t be forgiven?

Updates

+1 y

Everything was going amazing until the hiccup that led to this.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Honestly, if someone said that to me, I would move on and never look back. That is disrespectful, even if it was in the heat of the moment. I would say things are over.

[Asker]

So you wouldn’t consider that you may have said hurtful thing before getting this response? (Which happened, which led to why this was said)

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Obviously it would be considered but who the hell says “I wish I never met you” to someone you love?

[Asker]

Well it didn’t reach the level of love its more of a dating stage which I can see without the whole story seems harsh. But the back story is that it was a rash reaction to the hurtful things said before that. Regret certainly has taken over but in short, it was a response due to being hurt..

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Still, whoever should watch what they say when they are hurt, otherwise it will drive people away.

[Asker]

You are right and it all happened too fast. Everything was perfect up to that point.. I think they shut down because of their past too so their response was to be insensitive which led to the the rash response. An apology was given after but I don't know if it all be accepted. I thought I was blocked, but I wasn’t when the apology went through, curious if they will eventually respond or are too hurt to accept the apology.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

It’s a difficult situation, it may take time to just cool down and gather thoughts and emotions. Give it some more time, maybe check in later on and offer another apology along with a meet up when they’re ready.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice I appreciate it, I probably will do that. It’s just to think when will eventually be the right time now.. but I would say maybe a week or two or more.

[PhenomenalQueen]

Honestly, I would never forgive someone if they said that. That’s one of the worst things, if they do come back it would be pure luck in my opinion. I’m sorry that this happened.

[Asker]

Even if you really liked them? I mean people say things everyday, if you were the one who said things that hurt someone and this was there response, you really couldn’t forgive that?

[Asker]

Their*

[PhenomenalQueen]

Honestly, no, because I feel like when someone says things like that out of anger they’ve been feeling that way for a long time.. and if they weren’t, why did they say it?

[blundernuts]

Yes it can mean that unless said out of frustration and not meaning what was said

[Asker]

Was said out of frustration due to what was said prior to that comment being made. Didn’t mean it

[Darine123]

I said that too many times to my ex because I’m out of control and we both on heat so we both just tryna hurt each other by words, he said sth worse than I do

[Anonymous]

That sounds like the end to me. Move on.

[Asker]

So you think they will never respond? Even after knowing they said hurtful things that led to this response?

[legalboxers]

pretty much...