I haven't been in a relationship and I'm always honest about it. I don't want them expecting me to know what I'm doing.
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I am a virgin guy and it's similar or worse. On dates women assume bad stuff about you or make fun or leave. Some tried to set me up with hookers. As a girl you still have it way easier. I am used to it now. Before going to date , I already assume she's gonna leave after hearing truth, but after waiting for such long time, I don't wanna lie to get into relationships.
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Don't lie about it in my opinion. There are guys who would love to date a virgin girl. I would love that for example. I would think more of you, not less if you told me that. I might not believe you at first, but based on your behaviour etc, i would probably start believing you.
If a guy really doesn't believe you, then just tell him you don't want to talk about it. If he blocks you or does something else you don't like, then that guy is probably not worth your time anyway.
Why are you being upfront with strangers? You owe them nothing. Stop telling people you don't know so much about you. Some things are better left unsaid
Why don't you just start out telling someone who's interested in you that: a) You've never kissed a guy b) You've never been in any type of romantic relationship c) You're still a virgin
Obviously it's not the very first thing you should say! What I mean is that when it's obviously apparent that a guy is poking around for that kind of information, stop him in his tracks and tell him you know what he's doing. Then you can decide what, and how much, to tell him.
The one thing you should NOT do is lie for fear of being judged. If a guy forms a negative opinion of you for who and what you are, and believe in, then he's not the guy you want. How will you know what he REALLY thinks of who you are if you present yourself falsely?
You can just say that’s personal. You can wait till you get to know someone better to let them know. It’s really no one’s business that’s not serious with you anyway.
Well give them the answer they wanna have before they ask. Tell them that you are still a virgins though open to change that. Then they don't need to ask.
You having not been in a relationship yet might be seen as a bonus by some people, because you do not have past relationship psychological baggage that they will have to deal with.
Depends of you eamt something srs tell the truth, but if you told me you Know nothing i'd block you but you should know my type from a mile away so i would suggest you lie to me if your not looking for nothing srs
I am like you too. I have not been in relationship yet and i am 26. I think people find this very weird that i haven’t even had my first kiss and had sex. I think to lie too.
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I would not go as far as lying, but you can say it is too private for you to share early in a relation. Asking for sexual history is not something you do with just anyone.
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I haven't been in a relationship and I'm always honest about it. I don't want them expecting me to know what I'm doing.
I am a virgin guy and it's similar or worse. On dates women assume bad stuff about you or make fun or leave. Some tried to set me up with hookers. As a girl you still have it way easier.
I am used to it now. Before going to date , I already assume she's gonna leave after hearing truth, but after waiting for such long time, I don't wanna lie to get into relationships.
Don't lie about it in my opinion. There are guys who would love to date a virgin girl. I would love that for example. I would think more of you, not less if you told me that.
I might not believe you at first, but based on your behaviour etc, i would probably start believing you.
If a guy really doesn't believe you, then just tell him you don't want to talk about it. If he blocks you or does something else you don't like, then that guy is probably not worth your time anyway.
No need to do that it’s best to always be honest for them to know the truth even if they it hurts them.
If you choose to lie about that you will make things worse for yourself. Starting any relationship out with lies is not a good thing.
Why are you being upfront with strangers? You owe them nothing. Stop telling people you don't know so much about you. Some things are better left unsaid
You’re absolutely right. Thank you.
No, you shouldn't lie. Be confident and proud of who you are. If people can't accept that, then they don't deserve you.
I'm a virgin, too, and I don't care what people think. I know who I am and what I believe in and what I want for my life.
Why don't you just start out telling someone who's interested in you that:
a) You've never kissed a guy
b) You've never been in any type of romantic relationship
c) You're still a virgin
Why should I start out saying that?
Obviously it's not the very first thing you should say! What I mean is that when it's obviously apparent that a guy is poking around for that kind of information, stop him in his tracks and tell him you know what he's doing. Then you can decide what, and how much, to tell him.
The one thing you should NOT do is lie for fear of being judged. If a guy forms a negative opinion of you for who and what you are, and believe in, then he's not the guy you want. How will you know what he REALLY thinks of who you are if you present yourself falsely?
Lying is bad, also many guys prefer a virgin over a slut.
You can just say that’s personal. You can wait till you get to know someone better to let them know. It’s really no one’s business that’s not serious with you anyway.
Well give them the answer they wanna have before they ask. Tell them that you are still a virgins though open to change that. Then they don't need to ask.
Some guys do ask
No.
If he is really interested in you and happens to consider your virginity a problem then he should also volunteer to fix it.
You having not been in a relationship yet might be seen as a bonus by some people, because you do not have past relationship psychological baggage that they will have to deal with.
But for others being a virgin is a turn off
Depends of you eamt something srs tell the truth, but if you told me you
Know nothing i'd block you but you should know my type from a mile away so i would suggest you lie to me if your not looking for nothing srs
Want*
Same.
If they block you that is a sign they're not what you're looking for.
The only guys that are going to judge you for this are the one’s looking for a hookup or casual dating/sex.
In part you are right and why they do that?
I am like you too. I have not been in relationship yet and i am 26. I think people find this very weird that i haven’t even had my first kiss and had sex. I think to lie too.
I would not go as far as lying, but you can say it is too private for you to share early in a relation. Asking for sexual history is not something you do with just anyone.
You should make up a story that you've been with several guys and see how they react. If they are suddenly not interested in you, you dodged a bullet.
no, don't lie. If somebody does not accept you for who you are then they are not worth it.
You’re right. Thank you