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This is becoming more of a requirement thanks to radical feminism scaring the hell out of men. Also many guys have had a few bad experience of being rudely rejected (which feminists applaud) when approaching women.
The chances of a man rudely rejecting you are slim to none. The worst he might do is outright ignore you if he’s not interested and/or in a bad mood. But have you ever seen a man publicly humiliate a woman for approaching him?
More times than I can count.
@Gidge in high school? Grown men don’t do this crap.
I'd be very happy, complimented, surprised, impressed, if that ever happened. Would take off so much stress from my shoulders. I'd respect that woman way more too. You like me and you came up to me ! Wow only in dreams.
Nah. She’s just a gal willing to go after what she’s interested in. Everything else is for the future development.
But you don't feel like if she is willing to do that she wouldn't be willing to do it in the relationship if she has her mind set to it regardless of what he wants?
I can only opine on what I would think. I would be open to what she might want or push for. If I agree, I’m going yo say “yeah”. At times, even if I don’t agree, I’ll say yes if it’s obvious that it’s really important to her. However, if it’s a gal with a super high “self gratification quotient”… she either stops thinking only of herself or I’m distancing myself. I experienced a highly self gratification gal. It was what she wanted when she wanted it. Almost ruined our relationship. We survived it. She is very open to what WE want now.
I'm a bit turned off by guys initiating things, tbf. This is the ideal way for me. I'd love to read other opinions on this 💕
It depends on the situation. I dropped my stream earlier, You seemed to be having fun 😀
I don't think it sets the tone. I doubt my asking my wife set the tone.
Not at all we're in 2022... it's time for things to change.. and I have been asked out by women a few times.. didn't change anything.. it's actually flattering
I wouldn't want women approaching, not like they would anyway, now because of the power dynamic, I would just find it suspicious that she makes a move on me. I feel like it's a setup to get robbed or something
sadly, this is a reality today... darn...
Well it depends, if I was the type of guy women are drawn to, I wouldn't be as suspicious
lol...
What's funny, of course if a guy looks like a super model, it's not as suspicious if women approach him. It's easy to understand her interest in him
yes... I agree... and i also think there are more good than bad-intentioned people in the world.
Don't be surprised if you think you are average and a lady has a thing for you... if you meet ladies in a bar mainly, then you might find trouble,... especially if the lady is in your environment and observed your personality and face a few times, she may actually have a thing for you... but many ladies prefer a guy to approach... then we have modern day femininsts... and some with a dominant personality.
I would take it as a complement. I would think of the woman as outgoing but not dominant.
No. It only means that she is willing to communicate what she desires.
I don't think so. I've been asked out several times and it was never an issue.
Nah. It’s just a woman stepping up to the plate and knowing what she wants. It’s actually a turn on when a woman will go after what she wants
I've had a few girls approach me. It didn't make them dominant.
I was still just as dominant as I usually am (It's worth noting I'm very naturally dominant)
No, it does not lol. It's just an introduction! Sheesh.
Not really, I think women are becoming more equal and are having as much right to adopt a more assertive tone. I think power to that woman.
No. Certainly that doesn't work that way with guys, so I don't see how that would work in such a manner with girls.
No I don't think so.. i often get asked out by women.. it doesn't change the dynamic of the relationship what so ever.
The way that males interact with females is instinctual. I cannot be changed with a coin toss.
*It cannot be changed
Women have made themselves too dangerous to be around.
Men, do not approach, do not date and absolutely do not have sex with a female.
Today’s consensual sex is tomorrow’s false rape allegation.
Use a concealed bodycam to record all interactions. Keep the files on a server at home, as well as the cloud.
You may need those video/audio files to defend yourself against a false allegation.
I am assuming you mean recording except the bedroom parts as that would be a criminal act without consent.
@Ez-Bri-Z
It is not an offence to record sexual acts covertly, if those videos remain private and/or are used as evidence.
It is a crime to post such a video without being in possession of a signed model release.
Nothing says false allegation more effectively than a video of a woman on top, or a woman wrapping her legs around a man and screaming “fuck me harder.”
The Texas Penal Code makes it a state jail felony to videotape or photograph another person if it is done under one of the following conditions: Without the individual's consent. With intent to “arouse or gratify the sexual desire of any person”
Its like this is many if not all states. Its a crime to record someone during a sex act if they have a reasonable expectation of privacy
@Ez-Bri-Z
An argument could be made that the collection of evidence was not intended to “arouse or gratify the sexual desire of any person.”
The purpose of the law that you described could be only to enable false allegations. It serves no other purpose.
If it is illegal in a particular jurisdiction for a man to collect the evidence that he may need to defend himself against a false allegation, the only rational course of action is to refuse to engage with females.
Where I live (Queensland, Australia) such recordings are not illegal if they remain private.
I won't pretend to know your laws but you may want to qualify that people check their state/country laws before telling them to record people against their consent.
I don't think this sets the tine for either to be more dominant necessarily.