When being in a relationship with someone and have get used to in seeing them with a particular appearance surely it would be strange at first to get used to a new appearance. However if with that new appearance they have the same character and feelings towards me then I wouldn't mind.
I would care about the underlining reason for the change, for example a weight loss could point to medical or mental health issues.
same with an appearance change it would be the reasoning behind it.
The actual changes not so much.
If you had been married for say 20 years then you will both likely put on weight, change fashions etc.
i think concern for the reasons would be how I would view it.
I don't think I mind too much but I want my wife to be healthy. My polite way if she seems to be getting out of shape is like, "Let's work out together!" Because I could always use an improvement myself.
I don't mind her getting gray hairs and wrinkles. I start to fall in love with those things. I think of it like the years of us together reflected.
I would not leave if I liked them
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My girlfriend was 30 lbs overweight when we first met, then she got to 40 lbs over. I didn't care about it that much. You see someone differently when you're in love. Ofc she recently dropped about 17 lbs and I had gained back 20 and then lost 8. These things happen. I want to enjoy my life with her and not always count calories so long as we don't get all crazy about it. Every once in a while you just need to let loose.
Well physical appearance doesn't really matter at all. If you have a bit fat , it doesn't really affect your mental state. If you are smart and intelligent, i would date you if you have a bit fat on. Also scars are really sexy , i wouldn't judge you on that
I would say it's pretty important in the beginning. I would hope that anyone I fall in love with that overtime though it would become less important. I mean if it didn't I would think it would be a pretty shallow, unsustainable relationship.
I care a lot. Scars and natural things don't matter it might make her more unique. It's important to me she takes care of herself and wants to keeps herself somewhat healthy and happy as much as I do. Dress and makeup don't matter at home but wearing booty shorts at a formal event would make me uncomfortable
Turn off of becomes bigger cuz im myself thin kinda guy n heavy wouldn't be easy for me in certain ways... i prefer kinda like myself or a bit more is fine too
It matters a lot
Somewhat yes
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