Hello fellow folks
I've known this girl for 2.5 years, we've largely been speaking online via whatsapp/Instagram.
We share movies, music and have a great vibe together.
She's not dating anyone, I do go out sometimes but nothing concrete.
We've had a fair amount of fights, where I ghosted her due to private reasons, but she did check up on me. Once, she blocked me for 3 months, and yet we got in touch normally again.
I've told her how I felt about her ( I like her), and her response was:
Okay, hey,
I just hope that I write this message properly due to the said timing (because you do know how I dizzy I get if I don't have enough sleep)
and yes, as you said we should've had that conversation that time when we met, but I unconsciously maybe didn't want to have it yet, but it's true that some things need to be said to clear up from your side, because if it was the opposite way around, I would've definitely wanted it to be cleared asap.
That being said, I truly truly respect you and your thoughts, and I appreciate that you think of me like this, I really do.
But reslly trust me when I say this, I have never had a friendship like I have with you with anyone else ever. And it's not even about reservations about me exes being my friends prior to having a relationship, that friendship was merely for a few months before anything happened and w "reshan" even tho it was a year, it doesn't compare to the conversations we have, not even in the slightest, not even by 1%
If you compare my relationship w my bestf and you, you almost affect me like 50% as compared to them if something happens between us, and that' 50% is a lot, because I have never cherished a friendship w a guy like this ever
And you said, things are going to be the same between us irrespective of what I say, and I hope that that's true because I am scared of losing you
And maybe being scared of losing you as a friend is what made me actually reply
to that email and to meet you again.
I'm not a
I've known this girl for 2.5 years, we've largely been speaking online via whatsapp/Instagram.
We share movies, music and have a great vibe together.
She's not dating anyone, I do go out sometimes but nothing concrete.
We've had a fair amount of fights, where I ghosted her due to private reasons, but she did check up on me. Once, she blocked me for 3 months, and yet we got in touch normally again.
I've told her how I felt about her ( I like her), and her response was:
Okay, hey,
I just hope that I write this message properly due to the said timing (because you do know how I dizzy I get if I don't have enough sleep)
and yes, as you said we should've had that conversation that time when we met, but I unconsciously maybe didn't want to have it yet, but it's true that some things need to be said to clear up from your side, because if it was the opposite way around, I would've definitely wanted it to be cleared asap.
That being said, I truly truly respect you and your thoughts, and I appreciate that you think of me like this, I really do.
But reslly trust me when I say this, I have never had a friendship like I have with you with anyone else ever. And it's not even about reservations about me exes being my friends prior to having a relationship, that friendship was merely for a few months before anything happened and w "reshan" even tho it was a year, it doesn't compare to the conversations we have, not even in the slightest, not even by 1%
If you compare my relationship w my bestf and you, you almost affect me like 50% as compared to them if something happens between us, and that' 50% is a lot, because I have never cherished a friendship w a guy like this ever
And you said, things are going to be the same between us irrespective of what I say, and I hope that that's true because I am scared of losing you
And maybe being scared of losing you as a friend is what made me actually reply
to that email and to meet you again.
I'm not a
