When did relationships become being part of their friend group?

[DrSavage69]

So i was dating my girlfriend for two years, and we argued consistently about her friends not liking my mannerisms or behavior generally her friends didn't like me and we always spoke about how I had to put a lot more effort to be good with her friends. So I decided to end the relationship so her friends and her can enjoy someone new who would roll ans vibe better. Would you guys do the same thing?

Would stay in the relationship as everything else was semi perfect

Would continue to put effort and get nagging about not putting enough effort and arguing about it

[Mikejones2813308004]

That’s sad because it should be about what her friends think. I used to love this chick and she loved me but her fried talked so much shit about me that she started doubting me and eventually had a view of me that wasn’t even me because of her friends. So unfortunately if her friends/ family don’t like you it’s not going to look good for y’all in the future

[DrSavage69]

I couldn't agree more! I mean with family I get it it's very important to get along no matter what! But with friends, that's catch 22 and if every time you do go out with friends and they always complain then it's out of your control. And it's a pitty because we were very good together but how many times can you be put into comparison with friends and other relationships? Or even exes it's just a bit too much to handle

[LazerBean]

I wouldn't date someone if my friends didn't like them or if I didn't like their friends, because people are usually pretty similar to the friends they choose.

[DrSavage69]

You can't always choose when you fall in love, and at first you don't get to meet the friends, they just come later in the relationship. I get where you are coming from though

[LazerBean]

You can absolutely choose who you love. If you're relying on your feelings to choose important things for you then you're always going to fail in those things because feelings change. Also there is no reason to not meet their friends very early on when you start talking to them.

[DrSavage69]

Feelings and people change that is very true. It was kinda hard to meet friends during the pandemic, so all this happened when the lock downs where released, so il keep that in mind. Next time il meet the friends and everyone and then decide if it's worth it to pursue anything.