How do I make dating less frustrating, I feel like I am just absolutely just walking on egg shells with every girl I talk to?

[Intothevoid666]

The amount of things an interaction with women has ended for is insane. I message them back to quickly, I don’t message them back quick enough. I saw this girl I met at school at this club I was at. She mentioned how there was someone being whipped in the corner and I told her it’s a fetish club. Well that ended that. And the worst part is she asked for my Snapchat right before she walked away… wtf is that? Another girl mentioned how to not the guys she doesn’t like seem to approach her and I told her how as a guy it’s often similar because generally the girls u r interested in reject u and the girls ur not interested in want u. Well that ended that… And then they play hard to get until the end of time. And I could tell countless stories like this. And it’s like whenever they play this game I’m just supposed to accept them ignoring me while talking and mostly like fucking other guys like it’s no big deal or something. Why is talking to women absolutely just walking on egg shells? And what do I do to stop it?

[kylee2437]

Sounds like you have insecurity issues with rejection to be honest. “How am I supposed to live with them ignoring me while they fuck other guys” that’s called rejection and you aren’t entitled to becoming a thing with a girl just because you have just enough confidence to go up and talk to her.

[Intothevoid666]

I could handle if they didn’t want me but they all seem to get this impression that I will still be open to something in the future possibly. And that’s what gets me

[Intothevoid666]

But thanks for being rude af

[Intothevoid666]

And on some level if I’m continually rejected for super petty things I think I have some right to be frustrated

[kylee2437]

You are literally taking what I say as a personal attack. Seems like you need to reflect and self evaluate. Generally I wasn’t trying to be rude, I am simply saying that if you are being rejected for “petty reasons” they most likely weren’t interested to begin with

[Intothevoid666]

A lot were def interested. And I’m aware I’m not entitled to date anyone but I don't know I do feel entitled to being treated like a person call me crazy

[Intothevoid666]

I think u need to reflect tbh. Ur being rude as shit and if u can’t see that I don't know what to tell u. U should feel bad

[kylee2437]

I’m sorry you feel that way honestly. I don’t see with what I said is considered rude. Insecurities are an every human thing , we all deal with them however usually men that don’t want to come to terms that they are insecure usually take it as an attack when someone brings to their attention that they do have insecurities

[Intothevoid666]

Where do u even get the idea that I’m insecure? I’m frustrated not insecure.

[kylee2437]

“How am I supposed to live with them ignoring me while they fuck other guys”

[Intothevoid666]

That’s not insecurity. If a girl is playing hard to get while fucking or flirting with other guys I’d have to have not an ounce of self respect in my body to want to date them afterwards. Do a poll here and see what other guys think cuz I can basically guarantee like none of them are gonna be cool with it either.

[kylee2437]

So why pay mins to them if it isn’t insecurity? Move on. You are fixated on women that clearly aren’t interested in you.

[kylee2437]

Mind*

[Intothevoid666]

Because it happens so often it’s just ridiculous and at this rate I’m not gonna find a girlfriend and I want one now or I don’t want one. I’m not starting my first serious relationship to an older women and soon younger women are no longer going to be interested in me. But yeah ur right just don’t pay attention to them and that’s what I generally do but when like literally every woman I talk do does this what do I do?

[NotJim3]

I found that if you just unapologetically be you and accept that you have to wake through the people you don't connect with before you find someone you do connect with.

Dating is a numbers game, the people you're angry are ignoring you aren't really a good match for you anyways.

[Intothevoid666]

I guess but when I ignore them they tend to hit me back up and that just pisses me off. It’s like why can’t they just be straight up with this?

[Intothevoid666]

And how am I supposed to find one I get along with if I can’t even get to the point of getting to know them?

[NotJim3]

The right one will get to know you.

[Intothevoid666]

Fair enough