Not sure how they feel matters as much as you think because a huge percentage of women will pretend to be what they think you want while acting very differently than you want. And another huge percentage might act the way you want but they have very high standards/requirements for a man to meet before they're willing to. Your best move is to be high quality and to reject women who have even a hint of not meeting your requirements.
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I was in a relationship like that. I thought she was worth it.
When we kissed for the first time it was a long time coming and we had both been into each other for months, so it was a given that we were exclusive. I wouldn't want to be kissed by someone who expects that he can just go around kissing other people (or anything beyond that). Being that close to someone is a big deal to me.
Pass lol. I need to know ALL of you before committing... I'm sorry, but if you suck in bed it's not gonna be worth my time. Life is WAY too short to be having shitty/boring sex. If we ain't got a sexual connection, then we better off going our separate ways. No hard feelings. Lol.
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I expect that - would not date a guy who kisses somebody not his girlfriend
I kissed one guy non being exclusive.. and it turned out badly bc he kissed me thinking we were exclusive and I still hadn’t had enough time to process wether I could see us long term good together.
So have a talk with her. If you feel like your ready to ask her to be your girlfriend and be exclusive and see you both being good in the long term go for it!I don't expect people to be exclusive if it's just kissing but for me kissing is a way to show that I want this to be exclusive. I only kiss people I'm serious about.
Setting unnatural limits isn’t my thing. I always trusted my gut. You just know when you are both ready for more, or not.
I'm ok with that. I don't mind kissing pre exclusivity but I'd rather anything sexual is done after exclusivity is established.
I think that's totally fair and respectable.
No. I don't do exclusivity anymore.
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