I want to ask my boyfriend about girls he’s talking to. I’m pretty sure like 89% sure he’s talking to some but I don’t know how to straight up ask. And no I haven’t been snooping in his phone. But it’s things like:
- a. He won’t follow me back on instagram, claims he doesn’t use it, but his following/followers continue to change numbers
- b. For entire week he stopped entirely complimenting me, was almost cold towards me. But I couldn’t think of anything I’d done to make him mad.
- c. His Snapchat score for the most of the time I’ve known him was going up maybe 10 a day usually way less like 5. But during the week he stopped entirely complimenting.. it started going up like 100-200 a day which was really abnormal.
- d. Then this week I had asked him about a previous conversation we had that I was looking for clarification on.. and he told me he “wasn’t sure about me” or “wasn’t sure if he loved me or not anymore”
- e. Then he told me he’d rather see me happy with someone else than with him. < which is a very common excuse people use when they’ve met someone else.
We’ve I think worked things out since that conversation.. he’s still kinda cold towards me and definitely ignoring any hearts or I love you’s or words like baby.
But what can I do?
Do I just straight up ask him out of the blue, “so when did you start talking to other girls?” .. “are you talking to other girls?” I feel like such a crazy person asking those randomly.. but i know he’s not being honest with me.
- a. He won’t follow me back on instagram, claims he doesn’t use it, but his following/followers continue to change numbers
- b. For entire week he stopped entirely complimenting me, was almost cold towards me. But I couldn’t think of anything I’d done to make him mad.
- c. His Snapchat score for the most of the time I’ve known him was going up maybe 10 a day usually way less like 5. But during the week he stopped entirely complimenting.. it started going up like 100-200 a day which was really abnormal.
- d. Then this week I had asked him about a previous conversation we had that I was looking for clarification on.. and he told me he “wasn’t sure about me” or “wasn’t sure if he loved me or not anymore”
- e. Then he told me he’d rather see me happy with someone else than with him. < which is a very common excuse people use when they’ve met someone else.
We’ve I think worked things out since that conversation.. he’s still kinda cold towards me and definitely ignoring any hearts or I love you’s or words like baby.
But what can I do?
Do I just straight up ask him out of the blue, “so when did you start talking to other girls?” .. “are you talking to other girls?” I feel like such a crazy person asking those randomly.. but i know he’s not being honest with me.
