A woman I work with asked me out. I’m not exactly into women but I’m not really into dating in general anyhow-so I’m considering it - is that wrong? (Page 2)
I do t have dating experience I was in a relationship but it started immediately I just don’t want to inadvertently mess with people but I didn’t want to shit down a potential good opportunity.
If you keep things bottled up in, you it's not healthy just relax enjoy whatever happens you might open a whole new happy life inside you there are so many people they wished they would of done something different don't be one of those and be sorry later people are so unhappy with life now if you can find happiness then you are one of the luckiest ones
Hmm I’m not thinking of sex at ALL but I didn’t think that’s odd as we haven’t even dated. I don’t think I’m straight I’m equally ambivalent about guys as I am about women. I’ll go out we’ll see 😊
definitely not okay to lead her on though. Like, say you would go hang out with her as a friend because that'd be fun, but make sure she knows you're not into women like that.
It's okay. Let her take you out. Don't think of it as a lesbian date, just think of it as a date. Use your instincts the same way you would with a guy. You never know, you may end up with a girlfriend afterwards.
Foodie call? Lol def not going out to eat I hate eating out. And we’re going to go to a museum and the park. My favorite things 😊
I really do how I feel about anything so I think as ok g as I’m upfront she can secure for herself what she wants. I’m flexible just not fast. I’ll try stuff friendship dating rejationshios etc— but it takes me a VERY long time to adjust. so it’s her call really.
So your mind is crossed on whether to go out on a date with a woman when you're supposed to be hetero? If you're not into women, why are you asking? Is there something about her you like? I think you might be curious
No I don’t think so. She knows about as I much as I do his I feel. I will communicate something like that to her it’s just awkward bc it’s a casual situation and now I have to explain a bit of something.
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I think you should contact Human Resources to reach a resolution that would be amiable to all parties involved.
I do t have dating experience I was in a relationship but it started immediately I just don’t want to inadvertently mess with people but I didn’t want to shit down a potential good opportunity.
Do not*
she might turn out to be your best friend just have fun and enjoy it
That’s a nice way to look at it 😊
If you keep things bottled up in, you it's not healthy just relax enjoy whatever happens you might open a whole new happy life inside you there are so many people they wished they would of done something different don't be one of those and be sorry later people are so unhappy with life now if you can find happiness then you are one of the luckiest ones
Just tell her you're straight and only wanna stay friends, and will most likely never have sex
Hmm I’m not thinking of sex at ALL but I didn’t think that’s odd as we haven’t even dated. I don’t think I’m straight I’m equally ambivalent about guys as I am about women. I’ll go out we’ll see 😊
definitely not okay to lead her on though. Like, say you would go hang out with her as a friend because that'd be fun, but make sure she knows you're not into women like that.
I do t know if I am or not I suppose I have to find a way to explain that without making a big deal about it.
Go on lunch date or coffee date with less pressure. And make sure you speak with her about your concern forehand.
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Certainly Peter it’s a very reasonable response 😊
It's okay. Let her take you out. Don't think of it as a lesbian date, just think of it as a date. Use your instincts the same way you would with a guy. You never know, you may end up with a girlfriend afterwards.
It wouldn’t be lesbian Antonio bc she’s bi and I’m not anything lol just taking a look
I tried to be nice here. Took the time to answer your cry for validation and you had to go and be rude. Well go fuck yourself lady.
Where was I rude 👀
Antonio was a typo but still where’s the rude honestly I was just responding
Just go out with her and see how it goes. I know lots of bi and lesbian girls where we have gone out and just had a good time without any sex at all.
No it's not right. God intended marriage to be between on man and one woman. Not man with man and woman with woman.
Don't lead her on. What you would be doing is a foodie call.
Foodie call? Lol def not going out to eat I hate eating out. And we’re going to go to a museum and the park. My favorite things 😊
I really do how I feel about anything so I think as ok g as I’m upfront she can secure for herself what she wants. I’m flexible just not fast. I’ll try stuff friendship dating rejationshios etc— but it takes me a VERY long time to adjust. so it’s her call really.
Don't listen to the homophobes on here, go out with her.
I think I’ve decided to. 🙏🏼
I don't see any harm in it as long as you're fine with it. Just be honest with how you feel about it and what she should expect.
You should at least give it a try and see where it leads y'all. You never can tell, might be a life changing experience for you.
You're 24. Just go out and have a good time. If it doesn't really "work out", remember that it is for just one part of one night!
So your mind is crossed on whether to go out on a date with a woman when you're supposed to be hetero? If you're not into women, why are you asking?
Is there something about her you like?
I think you might be curious
That’s disgusting, you need to watch her tone. For legal reasons, I don’t mean literally, just….. dugh
Tell her how you feel and see if she’s still interested.
Gotta be honest with her.
Oh for sure.
@VIVANT
life is too short just go try it and have fun be casual and dont take life to seriously
@VIVANT
oh and dont forget to tell us how it went in great detail :D
Hahaha ok if I go I’ll certainly tell you 👍🏼
go with your feelings, not labels.
Yeah good idea I think 😊
Are you getting her hopes up needlessly?
No I don’t think so. She knows about as I much as I do his I feel. I will communicate something like that to her it’s just awkward bc it’s a casual situation and now I have to explain a bit of something.
But I’m def not being deceptive 👍🏼
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