Where are all the genuine guys? Why is dating so complicated? (Page 2)

Magosmall06 · 2022-07-08T19:14:33Z

I’ve been trying to date for months. It’s not the “attention” that’s the problem. It’s the fact every single one just wants to hookup when I give no indication of this whatsoever. I don’t even “dress” in any way that would say that either. I even have it on my profile that I’m not interested in hook ups. Yet every single one that speaks to me just wants to hook up. Some even post on their profile that they want a relationship, they talk to you then say they just want to sleep with someone and complain that they can’t get anyone to sleep with. Or they make excuses constantly and just don’t to talk at all, and they’ll happily not speak for weeks on end like that. I even had a guy say to me he can’t get “laid” and said it’s easy for me because I am “pretty”. How disgusting is that? Im so sick of being viewed as purely an object. I’ve tried everything to make it clear that’s not what I want yet it makes 0 difference. I have a good job, I’ve studied etc, I live a quiet life, always make plans to do things, I am not the “party” type either. Where can I meet someone who is just normal? Normal as in doesn’t try and send nudes, or ask to hook up or ghost you?

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Give it time it will happen when least expected.

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women are the problem

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