I'm a very handsome man, people say, but girls don't take the first step towards me?

[Anonymous]

Yes, the question is as in the title. Girls don't take the first step towards me for a relationship. I don't throw it either, I'm shy. What can I do, how can I make a lover? I've never had a girlfriend even once in my life...

[PrettyPriya]

You have to be proactive and get out there if you aren’t doing so already. Waiting for someone to fall in your lap usually doesn’t work. Do you go out and try to meet girls?

I always suggest finding a social club or activity group that interests you. There, you will find likeminded people that already share a common interest.

Thats a great place to start and meet others. Since you share an interest, it should be much easier to converse and interact with girls there. I was never big into the club or pub scene so I don’t recommend that but many people do meet at those types of places.

The problem that I see is that alcohol is typically involved and then clear choices may not be made. The next day she may have a regret since inhibitions were lowered.

I would much prefer to meet someone at a function where I had an interest and was of clear mind. Hope this helps.

[moviedude714]

You would think that you would know that the dating game has always been unfair and always will be

[qwert1234]

But why are you shy?

Also, in life, if you want something, act.

Make sure it's legal. lol

[Guy13]

Intimidated by your appearance.

[Guy13]

And they often assume ability to be faithful is not there. “I’m sure when he goes to the mall, girls hit on him.” There are girls so much prettier than I. If you are pretty like a model, you should know women are very insecure. And some of the most insecure ones are the female models.
—It is difficult.. can be difficult to find one that trusts. YOU have to man-up, lead, demonstrate a commital basic nature, understand that emotional usually comes before physical.
—“Doting Southern Boy” is how we would describe the depth…her and others must have such a sense of security in you and your judgement.

[Iron_Man]

Ask the girls post a pic

[In_Trance]

they won't. You have to take the first step