A relationship does not happen without proactive effort and the trained skill to detect and notice opportunity when it hides from you, one thing that has helped me is knowing people will both pretend to like you or to not like you and to keep your eyes and ears open for chances to date women, and I also believe clustering and proximity raises your chances, rather than endlessly procuring acquaintances which does not work due to the impersonal nature of your first contact with the person. Also consider trying with girls that don’t immediately catch your eye to see if feelings develop, you can attempt this on a purely friendship level to avoid hurting her, or accepting women who come to you.
You're attactive but I don't like how you dress (quite thuggish). You also have way too many pictures with other ladies, please don't ever post those on your tinder profile because you look like those older men who would do anything for a fuck. Don't bring up sex or anything about being single for so long (but also don't say you JUST broke up with someone). I would need to know more but it just might be that you seem too desperate and the longer you go without a partner the more desperate you unintentionally appear? Big assumptions there but I'm going off what you've given me.
Well you dress pretty decently from the pictures, you seem to be a fairly well groomed guy, and pretty confident from the pictures with girls and the fact that you actually hang out with them.. And you're not a bad looking guy at all.. You also have hobbies.. So, it seems like your problem might be that you don't talk to enough women.. Like go out and try and get numbers and date them.. It seems like you try to be friends with a girl and then ask her out.. Maybe you might even come on strong, or not strong enough.. Maybe saying "I think you're really beautiful, and would love to take you out on a date".. And wait to see if they get back to you..
I read somewhere that if you are romantically interested in a girl, make it known right away before you become her friend that you want to take her out on a date and not just be friends only. That way you both know where the other is coming from right away and there's no big disappointment from thinking she was interested when she was not.
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u Have you thought about ditching the facial hair?
I've been out of the game 7-8 years now, it wasn't a bad breakup I just gave up and got busy, now I'm too busy to take the time out (I take my birthday off (Christmas Eve) that's it even in hospital I kept working)
First off You looked old enough to be those Girls dad.
You look like you could be there dad and I’d give you a Dirty look if You on a date with those Girls and as a Fellow Father I wouldn’t approve of you dating my Daughter just for the simple Fact that You looked like you could be those girls dad
You’re not getting out there much. Maybe you’re still stuck in the past and afraid of moving on. There’s definitely something holding you back and whatever it is you need to get rid of it.
You seem like one of the cool guy to hang out with.
I'd totally hang with you on the weekends. Those girls are missing out.
Perhaps it's the locations you're choosing? Do the girls know you're interested in them on an attraction level?
Go Sox, eh? Maybe you should come down to a warmer clients...
You look like a dude I work with and he's married. It may be what @Iron_Man said don't wanna go through the motions of meeting someone new enough.
u Your hearts probably not into dating anymore
Hooter's probably isn't the best place to find someone looking for serious.
If you want someone looking for tips, on the other hand...
If all you're finding are the cast-offs, change the places & people.
Also - get rid of the necklace...
Lots of guys are still virgins by your age so you are better than many guys
Nothing wonky about your looks.
No idea. You seem pretty normal to me.
Do you watch pron?
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