Do you tell a friend or family member your plans before going on a first date? (Page 3)

OlderAndWiser · 2022-07-24T18:15:26Z

For your personal safety, I think you should tell a friend or family member before meeting someone for a first date (unless you already know this person fairly well.) The odds are overwhelming that your date is a decent person and nothing bad is going to happen, but. . . what if he walks you to your car at the end of the date, pulls a gun, and forces you to get into his car? You know what happens next. What if she invites you back to her place, you are excited about getting laid, and when you walk in, three thugs jump you, steal your wallet, and drive away in your car? It doesn't guarantee your safety, but it helps if you tell someone who you are meeting, when and where, and if you call them afterwards to report that you are safe and it went well (or he/she is an idiot but harmless.) And you could also request them to give you that rescue call, about thirty minutes after the date starts, in case you need a convenient excuse to get up and leave right now because your date is driving you crazy. Are you concerned about your safety on a first date? If so, what do you do for safety?

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Everyone should. ALWAYS. 100% of the time.
Don't risk your life, folks.

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Sure, my bros and female niggas can know about it!!!

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Nah, never have. It's very unlikely someone will pick me as a target for something nefarious.

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I tell someone I have a first date and I give info about who she is and where we are meeting

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Nah man I’m in college. And I always keep things light on a first date anyway

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Sometimes I tell my friends

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I do so my corpse can be found quicker! :)

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  Lol ikr that’s funny
  
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Better safe than sorry

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Third choice is what I teach my daughters

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When living at home, yes.

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I just tell my close friends when/where/with who

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I am my own first responder.

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I dont want your questions i have no respect fo you

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  So. . . I have a solution for the problem. Just don't respond to my posts.
  
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Who would i tell? I am on my own.

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Yes. In case I don't make it home.

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I always did.

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Friends yes, family, never.

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I don't tell anyone anything about my love life.

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Always

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I have too

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