Is he really not interested by girls right now?

[Mercurian_Brat]

Hi I've been talking with this guy for months and we stopped talking during 2 months because of a misunderstanding during this time his mom got an heart attack but survived thank God but now that he's "back" he been distant so I asked him what's going on and he told me that a lot has changed in his life and so he's not interested by girls right now and he wants to remain in contact but keeps telling me I need to live and move on and be happy amd he still git love for me though. I got so many questions like "Is he saying that because ge actually wants another girl but is scared to tell me the truth?","Is he looking for someone better than me?","Did he found someone better?","Is he back with his ex?","Is he keeping me in the side just in case?", etc... I feel like I'm going crazy please help me. I'm french by the way so sorry for the mistakes.

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He answered my last text

[Jacobbbb]

Don't overthink it his mom having a heart attack can definitely put a huge emotional strain on him. It sounds very believable that he's not interested in dating right now after what he went through and I can understand his perspective completely. So just relax. I doubt he's seeing other girls

[CallmeTheKnight]

He's basically told you nothing is to come from talking to him. He told you best... move on. Don't try to make sense of what he said, because he was 100% clear. You just don't want to let him go yet and I can understand, but sis let me tell you something... it's very unhealthy to hold on to something or someone who serves no purpose in your life. He's gonna live his life and so should you.

[Sarahplus2]

Sounds like he probably has someone right now and need to love on

[HonestAssholeJ]

He tried the nice out and you didn't take the hint. He tried a 2nd nice exit but you are to dense.

Anymore contact from is him just pitying you.

You should probably stop bothering him.

[Mercurian_Brat]

You picked that name well...

[Guy13]

I think you have been moved to position number two. Someone was there for him during Mom incident. That sound right to you?

[Mercurian_Brat]

Yeah I thought about that...

[Guy13]

Relationships... People are so complicated.

[FilmGuy93]

The guy just nearly lost his mother... Most people would need time figure things out before dating again.

[CuriousMufuxka]

You should totally move on. He's very nicely pushing you away.

[Mercurian_Brat]

It hurts 😭

[slatyb]

Date others. He’s told you no.

[pizzalovershouse]

Sounds like he has another girl