Mom is dating a much younger guy. She's crazy about him. I'm worried her heart will be broken. Should I say anything? What should I do? (Page 2)
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You're Mom is free to do as she likes, maybe just talk to her about it over coffee if you're worried.
Seem happy seen where it goes it's your mom course going to worry but she old enough to know what she is doing
Let it go. If you mention it you will be viewed as the enemy. Be there for her and if it does go South you are still her friend and in the loop
She's already an adult. Dating is not all good , heartbreak are part of it. She's having fun with a attractive guy having fun , if they brake up she will get sad but that's dating. I think she already knows it.
Well it's her choice and some things you have to go through in order to move on
I would not ask her to choose. Just deal with what ever happens.
Let her enjoy being in love or head over heels
that happens only if it was meant to be.
in most cases not much you can do but surrender!!
It’s not even a “surrender” issue what is this a stick up? She can just be in control of her own emotions. That’s life
But it is about out of control feelings. I think Your mom is at her sexual peek this happens around Menopause time. She sounds exciting
You mean Peak* and she’s not my mom. You should never be out of control with your emotions. You should be able to decide letting go with someone you trust and when having a trusting relationship you can be as wild and impulsive as ever- not with someone who can’t be trusted when you can’t grasp control of yourself. Same thing as not being in control while drunk and finding a good person to drive you home. Is he trustworthy? Is he responsible? Can he handle a reckless person? You’d say yes because you’d fantasize over some reckless sex, but that’s not a good enough answer for people who like calculated risks and trustworthy people. 🤙
Your emotions in love matter it’s much better of not to compromise it’s pure raw energy. When u analyse it like application for a job then it’s gone. Rosie have you ever falling in love with all the odds against you
I analyze everything down to the food I eat- I’m not about to be stupid and swallow a contaminant… if yo I want to do that and let your body regurgitate it- that’s you.
I analyze and then completely entirely enjoy my food. I’ve picked out so many stray hairs/ bugs/ boogers! A few roaches and other gross things.
With relationships it’s the exact same way- clearly me and you don’t see eye to eye on that
It’s not about life calculation of taking risk. It’s about love and pleasure that comes with it. I am hopelessly romantic. The price I pay is the Heartache I take. But it’s worth even if it is split Second !!
Lol you’re not romantic but nice try 🤙
More then anyone can imagine including you.!! I met the one we call
“The one “ when she was in her honeymoon “ against all odds we fighting for 3 years. We end up together for 7 years
It had to end sad otherwise it would not qualify as great love story
She is matured and experienced, she knows better, let him enjoy young and hard dick
If she is happy, then let her be.
She's happy now, but will she get her heart broken latter?
We don't have a crystal ball for that. She is a big girl, she knows what she is getting in to and the risk she is taking.
Just be there for your mom and you can definitely tell her your feelings.
How should I tell her? What's the best way to go about it? I don't want to upset her, but I also want to let her know I'm worried.
Do you think he could be using her just for sex? They do it a lot. Maybe he's just there until that dies out and then he'll leave. I am also worried about that possibility.
Hmm, you can tell her your concerns if you want. Although, you run the risk of offending her. Maybe your mom is more of a catch than you think and he will stay with her. She is getting good sex and he is making her happy. So maybe she just wants this to last as long as she can. I think she knows the risk that her heart might get broken but she is willing to push that risk aside to be happy now and hope that it lasts.
That’s just life. Nothing you can really do.
Talk to your mother about your concerns
Say somethong tho be careful.
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What exactly do you think I should say?
How old are they both?
nuna yo business! she knows whats she's doing!
Stay out of it. She is an adult.
Its none of your business...
Let her try love has no age
someone is jealous...
No. I already have a boyfriend I'm very much happy with. I'm just worried about my mom
Do not worry, Mom knows best
Not your business
I'm just worried my mom is headed for heartbreak. I love her and I don't want that
How would this change if the person she was dating was +10years?
He'd probably be more compatible and in a more similar place as she is. It would be more likely it would work out long term
That's an assumption and not necessarily accurate
Do you think he could be using her just for sex? They do it a lot. Maybe he's just there until that dies out and then he'll leave. I am also worried about that possibility.
Sure that's a possibility. But unfortunately you don't know all the details. For example maybe she's okay with being used for sex or maybe she's using him too. Maybe it was her idea for it to be just sex.
Let her enjoy