What do Ladies want from a guy who tries to pick them up?

[spg12212122]

I am able to pick up most ladies it is keeping them that is difficult. I want a lady who is perfect but never find them but willing to accept them. But they never last more than a fling is it just my class that is making them not want me? What do ladies want in a relationship?

I had experience of girls a lot they invite me into their bed and then throw me away... :(

[Anonymous]

Assurance, Security and Stability plus the love and caring.
Maybe it end up with just a fling because you act like its a fling only. Woman will not stay in such kind if you didn't tell them what you want in the first place. In addition to that there is no perfect woman in the world. Woman have flaws also.

[spg12212122]

I have trouble emotionally connecting... Perhaps that is why.

[Opinion Owner]

then you should settle those first before looking for someone you can be with. Baggages from the past is always a trouble.

[dustybiker]

I’ll answer this a bit differently, as I tend to do. Nobody is perfect. Everyone has flaws. It’s finding someone whose flaws compliment our own.

[Guy13]

To not be creepy…. Some, as hard as it is to believe, may not find you attractive. The best you can do if they do not like you is to get one good joke in…so they laugh and Exit….. even if they like you 😎

[spg12212122]

Are you saying I should do something memorable and leave. Be funny?

[Guy13]

Yes Sir. He’s Funny…. No intention but to say hey and share a smile-laugh. Clear the aire 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Iron_Man]

If they make themselves available they like you

[spg12212122]

Are you saying the Ghosting is the act of completely stopping all communication with someone without prior notice, typically with a romantic partner. And if they do not make themselves available afterwards they don't like me?

The person ghosting will ignore texts, calls, and any other forms of reaching out, and will normally not give any explanation to me?

[Iron_Man]

No I hate ghosting I'm talking about when you first meet them face to face they can make themselves available if they like you

[Anonymous]

It's not about what they want. Man. What women want changes with the breeze. Go after what you want, while still being a decent person. That's all you need concern yourself with.

[AndrésC64]

You're never going to find someone perfect.