What would you bring to the table? What are 5 things you hope your potential live partner brings to the table?

[Anonymous]

When deciding on what you look for or want in a live partner, what are are at least 5 important things you hope to find in your significant other? And what are 5 things you could offer them? I would like to hear from both men and woman what expectation they have and what they would/are offering their partner

''Bringing something to the table means finding out what that person needs from a romantic partner and seeking to provide it.'' - https://dictionary.tn/

[DaveJord]

Things I look for or want;

1. Someone willing to be emotionally and physically available.

2. Someone who has the flexibility in there live to be spontaneous and able to travel.

3. Fianical secure and self sustained... no crazy debt or unemployed women without any source of their own income.

4. Some whose willing commit to a process with the intent of being toward a future together or at least to a relationship, with rushing. I like monogamous relationships.

5. They have their own living situation... no body living with their parents or with 5 other people.

What do I offer;

1. Finical security

2. Emotional security

3. Spontaneity and chapanionship

4. Flexibility and Freedom

5. Commitment and maturity

[D-Pad_Chad]

What I'mlooking for. In no particular order...
1. Healthy weight (under 200)
2. Doube Ds
3. Gamer
4. Cooks & Cleans (or we split chores if we're both working.)
6. Same value system as me (conservative-Christian)
7. Wants children
8. Doesn't currently have children.
9. Enjoys comedy & can take a joke.
10. No social media or willing to get off it (unless for business use)
11. No drama
12. Loyal
13. Monogamous
14. Virgin preferred (body count under 5 a must)
15. Ok not being legally married, but in a relationship indefinitely.

Know that's more than 5 but I have no expectations in finding this either. Now what I bring.

1. Financial stability, not rich but not poor.
2. Tech savvy
3. Self sufficient (I repair my own stuff, except cars)
4. Animal lover
5. Fiercely loyal (was married for 17 years.)
6. Protective, I can and have protected home and family.
7. No drama

[Pinay_ako]

• Dependable/you can count on me
• I have a nice paying job
• I am street/book smart
• I can cook, clean! You’ll come home to clean house with warm delicious home cooked new
• I am loyal/family oriented

[Pinay_ako]

Meal 😆

[Asker]

Thank for your answer :)

[Pinay_ako]

You’re welcome 😇

[KrakenAttackin]

@Pinay_ako. So, why aren't you married?

[Pinay_ako]

@KrakenAttackin coz nobody wants me

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nothing. I don't want her to bring anything new to the table, I want to relate to her, not gain benefits from her.

I want basically a 99% copy of my brain in a female body (for lack of a better way to phrase it).

Same interests, same hobbies, same sense of humor, is an atheist, is scientific, loves challenge, plays the hardest games, loves scifi, fantasy, cartoons/anime, and loves drawing.
Doesn't want kids. Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke or do other drugs, etc.

I want a gaming buddy for that really hard shit, intellectual conversation, giggle fits, affection, comfort, and to do the stuff i enjoy and have someone else say "mee too, can i join?" instead of feeling more isolated.

[Asker]

Interesting, kind of sounds like a twin flame.. Thank you for your answer

[Anonymous]

- I'm well educated, have a good job and earn very good money compared to most men my age

- I'm honest and hard working but like to have fun

- I want a family with the right woman (haven't met her yet)

- I have a really cool dog. I only bring this up because it seems he is a magnet for women

- Apparently I'm reasonably attractive based on the feedback I have always received

What should a woman bring to the table? Pretty much what @Pinay_ako does.

[Asker]

Thank you for your response and yes your dog sounds like a great thing to bring up , I hope you find a good one

[Kaneki05]

Offering? This ain't a sales pitch. I am myself you either like it or don't. And I am looking for someone who likes me.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah I dunno why some people treat relationships like a business, it's dumb.

[Asker]

You being you is the sales pitch and they might find qualities they like or dislike in you etc. If 50 women were to like you, what would help you decide which one you should choose?

[Kaneki05]

What is this fictional world were 50 women would like me? But for the sake of an answer I would pick whomever I like the most as to reasons why I liked them? That would be a bit more complex than they can cook or something.
So just me but it would a bit more on just feeling something more towards someone than who has rationally more good qualities.

[Asker]

Ahaha yeah I could have made that example way smaller but answer if you and thank you for your answers so far, feel free to go more into depth with your answer it helpful for me to see different views and perspectives for this question

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I would bring Biblical knowledge, Biblical values, Love of God, Honesty, Fear of God.

For her I would like she brings the same 5 things.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Biblical knowledge isn't as important since I would teach her if she doesn't have it.

[KrakenAttackin]

"I am the table"!

[Asker]

Could you describe this table of yours?

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... OMG, you have to ask? Just look at me! Look at all of this!! I make a house a home, I am the center of the universe! You are nothing without me!

[Asker]

I litterly can't look at you, I don't know you. To me you are like a blank canvas, I can't know if you are a beautiful work of art or not until you paint me a picture. I do appreciate dramatic wording though, it was low-key funny