I’m about to see this guy soon I genuinely like him and he’s very nice and respectful to me I just don’t wanna do anything sexual with him other than cuddling I don’t want him to think im easy to get physical with how long should I wait to do anything with him without him feeling like Im easy
There is no "good time", being easy is not about time, but it's about how selected the guy is. So it's all about proving him he is a selected pick.
You might even go sexual after a couple of days if you spent all the free time talking non-stop and found an insane exclusive chemistry between you two with something special that wouldn't be there with most guys instead.
So, you could start showing him how better he is than your expectations or than average guys, how he is able to make you feel etc, when he does something cool. So that it looks like he earned that somehow (regardless if it's true or not, here you're talking about not "looking" easy).
However if your goal to not look easy is not just about reputation but it's about making your intentions clear regarding a relationship, then that's another discourse and sure, you can have sex any time and it won't matter, what matters is you are indeed clear about what you are looking for (you both). If he isn't as determined as you in pursuing a relationship then that might be time to take a step back and keep dating more casually, to see if your paces will eventually match or not.
You don't communicate your intentions through how fast you get to sex, because people end up having relationships after hookups, or, still just a disastrous friends with benefits after a lot of dates, so it doesn't really matter, what matters is being clear about intentions.
It depends on the guy, but since you probably aren't a virign and he probably isn't either, I'd say 3 months minimum. I would tell him that it will take 3 months so you can be sure you have a good relationship before getting intimate. Don't tell him it is so he doesn't see you as easy.
The best time is when you feel comfortable enough, when you trust him enough.
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Do what you feel. If a man would reject you for having sex with him, he's not a man you want to be with.
Best to tell him your boundaries. Let him know you are ok with anything above the waist. That way he feels comfortable and can still show affection.
