I don’t meet many women face to face because of my work. I work alone and have little to no contact with my customer base. I don’t have coworkers either.
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I’m thinking of downloading tinder and trying to get a girlfriend. Is it worth my time to try on there?
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
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Do you know your life purpose? Are you on the way to retireing early? Do you have your own place? Financially free? Do you workout?
Forget about 'getting a girlfriend' get on your purpose.
Thanks for the appreciation. There will be plenty of time for women a little later and when you know who you are, what you were born to do, and are doing it every day, they will naturally be attracted to you anyway. If you date now, they will be interviewing you for suitability, but when you date later, you will be interviewing them for suitability...
Just a few things to get you started. Read up or try some of the samples that interest you from here:
And search for the book 'seed money in action by jon speller' or read the PDF. There are too many things that can improve your life, that I don't know where to start so just giving a few pointers that may lead somewhere that resonates. You may also want to read the book 'Power Of Now' by Ekhart Tolle. if you do decide to date, limit it to 20 minutes and don't get serious but it's better just to go full ahead on your purpose discovery. Good luck!
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At your age you will see a lot of bots and cam girl snap chat entreprenuers lol I don't recommend it for a girlfriend. I would try Match or Bumble for that. The facts are that dating apps are not very great for men but the men I have worked with that actually invest in themselves, bio, photos and put a decent product out there they have done ok. Most guys just don't really try and complain that online dating sucks. I wonder what the stats would be if guys actually tried and put out a good product on the market... product meaning themselves.
Impossible to say, depends on a lot of factors, like:
- Your location - Your level of effort you put into it - Your patience - Your profile pictures and bio - Your actual attractiveness - Your general attitude towards women - Your text messages once you match
But let me assure you of one thing: If you bring even just an ounce of any kind of delusional incel drivel to the game, you're out. No sane woman will put up with that toxic bullshit. I guarantee you that. And they can smell that incel / "nice guy" crap a mile away. So better start working on that (I know you're kinda down that rabbit hole).
And don't listen to all the people who claim Tinder is only a hookup app. That's complete nonsense, these people usually have little to no first hand expeirence with Tinder. Tinder is used by millions of people and they all use it for different things. I have years (on and off) of experience with Tinder and other dating apps. I can tell you, most women on there are not just looking for hookups. Many or most are open to a hookup if that's what happens to come out of a date and nothing more (which is a totally fine and healthy attitude by the way.), but most are not deliberately looking for that. And plenty are actually looking for something serious. But I also agree with Subarugirl - Bumble is better. There, once you match, only the women can message first. They have 24 hours to do so, otherwise the match disappears.
Total waste of your time. You are better off taking a recreational college course, spending your time at a venue be it a library, cafe, bar, or other place that might have the kind of girlfriend you are looking for. Your time is much better invested on something like that. Or anything else. Even grocery shopping is a better investment in your dating life than Tinder.
Just bring honest based on my own experience and my friends. Guys in general have a very poor time on tinder unless you're in the top 1%. It's not really anyone's fault, it's just there's lots of guys on tinder compared to women and most will swipe right on every woman they see. This means women have tons of potential matches and have to wade through tons of profiles to find someone they like. This it's very difficult to find a match. One of my friends, a guy made a profile and got like one or two matches a month. But other friend who's feminine presenting got over 10 matches in 2 weeks. And then there was me with no likes or matches 🤣.
So, go ahead and try it I'd you'd like, nothing wrong with that. Just be warned it ain't a very pretty experience.
I had no luck on Tinder. It’s widely considered a hookup app, so i went there for a hookup. All i ever found on there was single mothers who expected to get married and hookers. The hookers all overvalued themselves and i don’t date single moms. So i deleted the app. Good luck to you though!
that sounds like a waste. I'd rather you go hang out at bars, drink water, and learn to communicate. watch videos and learn about women, about men, how to be witty and engaging, build your confidence... and practice being your best person while engaging. Practice at the checkout counter and everywhere you go.
Pretty soon, you are being your best person and opportunities arise.
In my opinion, it's a waste of time and effort barring any sheer dumb luck, which isn't likely because most decent marriage-minded people on Tinder will get disillusioned very quickly and won't go back. You'd be better off joining a church group, hobby club, or something where you can meet someone in person with a shared interest.
Personally I find dating apps to be shitty and mostly people aren't serious on there BUT I think you should at least try it out for yourself and see if you might be lucky, cause there are people who truly found someone, you never know and you have nothing to lose. Try it and make up your own mind🙏🏼
In my opinion dating apps are useless, all you find are fakes and liars, people who just want sex, I used to go on different ones looking to meet someone for a partner and I never got anywhere, I had a good profile lots of photos and all I got was money grabbers, creeps or people wanting sex I gave up in the end, if you want to meet people I’d suggest going out and meeting people that way.
Tinder is mostly to find someone for sex. If you want a girlfriend, I would suggest one of the more popular dating sites: Match, PlentyOfFish, OurTime, etc. Those sites have some women looking for relationships, but some will tell you there are man fake profiles and scams as well, so be careful.
Absolutely not. Statistically it will only make you lonely and depressed. And to be fair, you shouldn’t be meeting women at work either. That creates needless risk and could jeopardize your job. I would suggest expanding your friend groups to start. The only way to meet decent people these days is through friends or church.
Dont... Most if not all online date platforms are over run with scammers or fake profiles. Id watch the Tinder Swindler, that gives you the worse case scenario of what can happen if you are not careful.
There is no guarantees of meeting anyone No financial or consumer protections if a scam takes place.
Ngl I'm a woman so not a first hand experience but I heard it's a sausage fest on there and very disheartening if you're a male. However, I have met enough of my ex's on tinder.
No. Not if you struggle to get dates as it is. The people who succeed in online dating are the same people who succeed in dating in person.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
+1 y
Im not joking when I say that even 6' tall, hot guys have a hard time getting any attention on tinder. The only reason I can say try it, is because you'll see that women really dont find you attractive. That's what I learned from tinder. And it did mature me just a little.
I wouldn’t recommend it based on my experience as a relatively average guy. If you’re good looking, you can find hookups there, but I wouldn’t seek out a meaningful relationship there.
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