Girls, Why am I attracted to the wild, darker-skinned men (mostly Middle Eastern) but not like blondes with muscles?

[Anonymous]

I'm trying to understand if it is a kind of fetishization or just my preferred type in men generally since my one and most powerful crush Kayvan Novak. As I listen to his podcasts, I've realized that the men I'm attracted to were mostly his kinda look-alikes and FIRE SIGN MEN IN GENERAL. When I talk to my girls or close friends about that, they think I'm a maniac. My family is full of blondes and redheads with green/blue eyes and they have mostly monolid-eyed Asian face structure. Please girls let me understand. Is this just my type or a kind of sick approach to something I find exotic?

[Bethany22]

I always used to be attracted to that pigmentation as well. Aparantly most women prefer tall dark and handsome, whereas men prefer blondes. Having said that, men with blue eyes tend to prefer women with blue eyes, which could explain why your family members all look alike.

[Asker]

oh, i see. thanks a lot. I think pigmentation and a tiny bit of chubbiness is a literal drug in men.

[inkyvampire]

We can’t choose who we become enamored by. Nature does that for us.

[Nikki1989]

It's just a preference. We all have them.

[Asker]

aww thank you so much

[Anonymous]

Not sure

[Asker]

me too and it bothers me