I had multiple people messaging me and than the guy I was the most interested in stopped appearing in my feed. I don’t know the situation, whether they are sick or busy, we were not around each other long enough to exchange scheduling and lifestyle information but I no longer sense a tie with him.
In the role reversal I’d move on instantly, life’s short and complex things happen situations occur that are not always known to both parties. If it’s meant to be he’ll find you or reach out, if not it’s a case of nothing ventured nothing gained. There are too many people on this planet to to go through before you find “The one” and hell if you miss them by chance dw there's more than one compatible person out there for everybody that’s just a fact of life. If they’re gone go in my opinion 👌
If I message a woman and she's read my message, ignored it, but days since went on social media etc... then I would not bother with her again. A lack of text response is unacceptable, unless there is a very valid reason.
If he stops texting after at least a week I'm gonna move on... I give the decency of a week because I know we can get caught up in our lives and things can come up but if it's been a week and he still can't say anything even a small update then I'm gonna take it like he's not interested anymore or wasn't being honest and go on with my life meeting/talking to other people.
If you are interested, ask for a way to contact him next time you talk. Most of the times people can't be online here often so show him you wanna know him better on daily basis. Don't lose something good for lack of initiative. Good luck!
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I am not going to say 3 days or a week. If you like him you don't wait and contact him instead to go on a date again.
Some people are truly worth it and can be the love of our lives but we won't know if we don't try.
But if he keeps flaking on dates, you know he isn't interested.
Same thing I do with ladies I’m interested in. Trust your gut and give them a certain time after reach out one or twice max ( say a week for example) then if you feel it’s not going anywhere hang it up.
You can of course check in whole taking to other people also.
I'd say wait about a week. A week gives the person enough time to thoughtfully respond. Waiting any longer than a week could be a sign they're not interested, and it might be best to let the conversation die out.
Depends how long I've known then and how much I like them. If they're just one of like 10 people I'm chatting to then I pretty much move on straight away, but if I like them I get kinda obsessed with them sometimes.
That is part of the problem with all this social media crap! Never a real person to person conversation just a bunch of one line text messages which are useless.
Hmm, that's a tough one. I kept waiting for months and wasted my energy. Ah, the results aren't going to be promising at all so I would suggest you move on asap.
Maybe The Guys you meet always Go the other direction Because Of Jesus They don’t wanna be Judged And feel Judged while in your presence because of your Rudeness.
I find Good moral people to be the most Rude most evil people.
back then, months upon months.
now, a week at MOST.
but i don't have to worry about that.
First, I'll text them at least once every two or three days. If I get no answer in about a week then I'll try calling them. If there is no answer by the third call then I'll move on and start talking to other people.
If you want to talk, just send him a message yourself. That phone works both ways, m’lady!
The only texting I do is "See you at Starbucks in 10 minutes" Then have the conversation in person.
You could wait forever but it wouldn't change anything. If you want him to talk to you, you have to message him.
One week. Nobody should take that long to respond, even if they’ve had a near-death event.
Give him a week. He might be in hospital with COVID.
if it was a girl i move on after i make the last text... until they respond back.
Straight away. Life to short to waste time on a losser
I honestly waited a whole month before moving on because I felt we had something.
Move on immediately
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