There's probably a lot of things someone can say that would turn another person off, regardless if it was stupid or mean-spirited. I've had that happened, has anything like that happened to you? (Doesn't necessarily need to be someone you know personally).
This is quite a recent story in fact...
There was this guy I've dated... It wasn't very serious, we often just had good times, went out. We didn't intend to get sexy in bed until one day. Even though he knew about my heavy incontinence and I told him that I must wear diapers or pads 24/7 due to this medical condition of mine.
So we went to his place. We both knew what the idea was. We started kissing on his couch, petting of the finest quality. It really was the premium of the sort I had. But then he unbuttoned my jeans and saw what he wish he didn't. I can't recall his exact words, but he was like "are you stupid, did you really think this would seriously work?".

I totally felt devastated. I mean, should I have warned him once again about this? Did he think I could deliberately abandon this illness for the night I'm with him? I felt I have absolutely no control over my situation and hope he'll not spread bad words about me. I lost all my self confidence and felt so dirty I have no words for. I still feel bad when I think about this story. I'm not sure I managed to process this entirely.
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372 opinions shared on Dating topic. I mean, I barely knew the guy; we started talking about “hypothetical” scenarios, and at one point we both start getting a bit into it, and he says something like, “yeah bitch.. ya da ya da … you my cum slut.”
And I said to my inner self
“HOLD. THE. PHONE!! ✋”
Lol after that, I said to him,
“well, I’m not a slut because I wouldn’t do that and that, but I know you’re a man slut because of that and that. Anyways, you barely know me.”
yada yada
‘Gur-BYE’ Lol
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Good for you standing up for yourself!
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@Sixgunsound many thanks 😄👌
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I had a chat with my at the time seven-year-old daughter that she has my permission to hit somebody back to defend herself if they hit her first and the school doesn’t protect her. I will defend her defending herself as long as I am able to do so.
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@Sixgunsound omg that’s a great idea! I should tell my nephew this.
If you don’t mind?
I've heard multiple extremely attractive women say things along the lines of "I don't owe [this person] [whatever basic courtesy.]" That nonsense turns me off like you wouldn't believe. The one time was this IG model who had gotten help from a random guy with changing her tire. This poor dude is helping her out, and she kept her mouth shut while he was around, but when she was telling the story online, all she could think to do is talk down on him, and insult and degrade him.
Another time a beautiful woman said that vile phrase, she actually said it to me. I helped her complete her grad school applications by helping her write her personal statement. When I was surprised to find out that she got into school (she was my girlfriend at the time), I asked her why she didn't tell me. And her response, with as much exasperation as you can possibly imagine; "I don't know why you think you can control me. I don't owe you that!"
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Pretty privilege is nothing new, bruh
The weird thing is that I've heard plenty of nasty things from ugly, average, and slightly above average people, but I've never heard a very attractive person say anything rude. Some of my best friends from baseball and basketball were extremely attractive, and they never said anything worse than what most of us say, like "Fuck off" for instance.
The absolute ugliest stuff I've heard comes from ugly people, sadly. You can decide why that might be.
But to answer your question, the ugliest thing I heard came from a moderately attractive girl who said disabled people were being punished by God for something they did in a past life. She also said the Jews and other minorities who died in the Holocaust must have died because they weren't obeying God and following Jesus. She's said some other things too... I argued with her a lot. If she had been a guy, people wouldn't have tolerated her.10 Reply
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+1 yI heard a girl say her sister had a dead fish in her bed room and did not remove it and her room smelled like dead fish for weeks. Her sister was also very good looking and she says if you don't dress up and look pretty, you make your religion look bad.
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m +1 yhmmm... it's taking me too long to think of attractive women saying the ugliest thing, lol
does G@G count? lmao... or just real life because in here, I've definitely seen a whole lot said by some women, and it's just sad... they might not even be attractive, though
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Both works, it could be anywhere since you dont actually have to know the woman yourself.
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well, I've certainly heard or known of women do despicable, awful things yes... but I didn't witness it personally
but I actually just remembered something... you know how all those parents that do hit their kids for discipline, well punishment, I did hear a lot of growing up, while at the supermarkets and stuff...
like scolding them harshly, then these kids would sob or whine and they would shout like "KEEP CRYING AND I'LL GIVE YOU A REAL REASON TO CRY" one time this woman was so intimidating with her child that I actually started to give her shit for in front of everyone (I was a young teen back then) and!! security showed up to take ME out, lmfao...
nowadays I do see a lot less of that, that's for sure... but yes, that's ugly parenting for sure (and yes, a few of these were "attractive" moms" - +1 y
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"No one is going to believe you, Johnny. I'm a woman." - Amber Heard, something like that
What a literal piece of sh*t she is.
20 Reply466 opinions shared on Dating topic. I've heard a woman say she doesn't consider ugly people worthy of having opinions, because they're ugly.
She considered herself attractive, and said as much, but honestly she wasn't all that attractive.32 Reply- +1 y
That's very harsh!
One night over dinner, my wife said "Oh you don't want to leave me coz ain't nobody else gonna want you." I got her back though, I banged my crack head neighbor on the couch while she was in the next room. She woke up to that girl screaming 'Oh Jesus stick it up to where my future kids are at." And I said, "See, you was wrong, this crack ho want me."
10 ReplyA beautiful classmate of mine when I was in high school told me that I would never get a girlfriend. Well I’m glad to say…I proved her wrong. 😃👍. I’m happily married to a wonderful beautiful Chinese girl and we have a 10 year old son together. 👍❤️🙂
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First, the silence of being blocked by someone you thought was a friend.
Second, the girl who once told me, "You think I would date you? You think anyone would date you?"
10 Reply3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. It's not rape if you're dating. (FYI for the dumbasses on here, yes, it's still rape)
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OHMYGAWD
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That's seriously dark
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I blocked him a few weeks ago. I'm so proud of it.
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These guys make me scared of dating 😭😭
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I hope so. I almost dated a Mr "It's different for us men"
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Dayum
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+1 ySome guy once said that you should fuck the diva girls and marry the nerds and I'm just like "jerk alert lol"
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Its NNN🤣
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That's still an awful thing to say
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Ikrr. Jus some shameless guys. All women should be respected.
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@michael00007 thank you
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+1 y"No lives matter until black lives matter"
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+1 yI've a girlfriend tell me I wasn't her first choice but I was her "safe " choice..
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that is harsh, wow
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Yeah it hurt pretty bad.
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I've also been told I was " good enough to cheat on but not good enough to cheat with ,"
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By the same girl?
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It's like she wanted to hurt you lmao
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@anon1903 yes same girl..
She wanted to beat my self esteem down.. it worked for a little while.. but a person. Can only take so much..
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+1 yWelfare actually helps people.
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+1 ycan't recall rn
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+1 yPerson being toxic and selfish is a big no
10 Reply3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Most people are stupid, I can't say
10 Reply347 opinions shared on Dating topic. i don't know no and im really sorry about that
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