I have crush on him and didn’t know how to approach him, then I ask my sister to ask him if he can give me a ride home since he used to be my sister friend and he accepted ; we had a little chat in the car and after I get home I ask my sister to give me his phone number so I can thank him.
I got his phone number and text him to thank him for the ride and the next day I saw him on Snapchat and decided to add him And then he add me back
Then he ask who I was since my username was so weird and I decided to play mind game with him.
We started chatting and joking through text messages he was funny, after 4days I started to realize that I was getting used to him.
The I decided to tell him that I have crush on him and he laughed and ask me since when, and I tell him since I saw him at work , I thought he would say something but he didn’t and the next day We start talking like nothing happens he was joking with me and making me laugh like always.
Then I told him about his friend who seems to like me and he say that “he’s a nice person you should go out with him “ and I was like no way , I don’t feel nothing for him and he laughed like he used to joking.
Then I told him again that I like him and told me that ; it’s impossible to like someone you don’t know, and I told him that I can feel that he’s a good and nice person, he joked about it and last week I decided to tell him that he’s giving me butterflies in my stomach, I told him that I like me but I’m afraid to be left alone and get hurt often and he replies by “ well you seems to know everything about the future”. And since then he changed he doesn’t text me back like he used to , he reply me back after hours or even after the next day.
And I am the one who always start a conversation I know that he’s a busy and shy person but right now I’m confused I don’t know if he get mad at me , he likes me back or he’s not interested in me.
"And I am the one who always start a conversation I know that he’s a busy and shy person"
You state the behavior you don't like then excuse the behavior right after. This is a YOU thing. Need to develop some self awareness. He's not interested.
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