I always get rejected by guys. No matter how hard I try. I try to be nice and friendly and show them I'm not mean. It's just my life, I guess.. I'm not really that ugly..
They don't. It's only the 10 out of 10 super-attractive guys you feel massively entitled to, while you make every excuse under the sun regarding the decent "5s and 6s" men who you reject without a thought in the world or try to paint as "creepy" or "incels" to not feel bad about treating them like crap.
And I know who this is that posted this, too. Back to complain more again, eh?
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"I'm not really that ugly"
It doesn't sound like your have the most confidence, and I wonder if you take care of yourself.
How you carry yourself can affect how people approach you. Do you have self-confidence? Do you take care of your appearance? Do you try too hard to be likeable and just come across as Plain-Jane. I've done that, where the color and uniqueness is sucked out of me. I'm much more interesting as myself.
I've had better results becoming friends first too.
Even if you were perfect, you will still find those problems. Dating today is like that. Some people do because they don't want anything serious, others do because of playing games.
Just look for the right person, and quickly dump anyone else. Don't try to understand or change nonsense.
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Chill out and find a hobby and it will all come together
When a woman gets rejected by a guy it typically comes down to 2 things.
1. She puts forth little to no effort and expects the guy to just miraculously just know her interest.
2. She punches above her weight.
Which one are you.
Overweight? Tattoos? Unnatural hair color? Extra unusual piercings? A bad unacceptable past? If it isn't any of those then I don't know why.
Don't spend your energy on those loosers, trying to be good for someone who doesn't respect you. Work on yourself, your career for the inner peace. You will find a good guy eventually
You are competing with pure freedom. Ask yourself how well you compare...
Maybe you're too nice and friendly... too much of that can be a turn off for most people...
How do you get reflected? What happens exactly?
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