Hmmm that’s a good question. I do think it’s my fault essentially. Had I paid attention better and didn’t put what I was seeing above my standards, this situation wouldn’t have lasted.
He’s blocked now since not only when I reached out, he replied with excuses and never apologized but he also went the route of deleting me off social media. Anything to circle around accountability. My hands are now clean
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Lol! It sounds like he is doing a fair attempt at ghosting himself.
I think you have a dead horse. I wouldn't bother doing anything if I were you.
I ghost toxic and over dramatic people. I reject online dates.
I was definitely the more over dramatic one, but honestly he deserved it. He thought I was just going to take every assholeish move he made on me
Don't ghos. You are better then to leave someone stressing about you. Put the shoe on the other foot
I just wrote out an entire paragraph kind of thing just expressing the past couple months and I’m sending it off tomorrow
I would ghost him this will open his eyes up.
Ghost until he reaches out first, then you can tell him you no longer want to be involved.
You shouldn't ghost him. Just make your feelings clear. Everyone deserves a closure
Never ghost anybody talk to people face-to-face in person if it’s a long distance, relationship do it on the phone but always try to fix it
Just tell him and tell you why so there's no misconceptions about how and why you feel the way you do
I already did and he is the one that ghosted after I ended things so it is what it is lol
He's a fool cause he lost a good one
That’s on him. Hey he wants to be a loser and put massive amounts of video games and such before me so it is what it is
@kylee2437 So you gave him a second chance and he messed that up too
@kylee2437 Can I ask you a serious question
Yep I gave him room to apologize and nothing so it is what it is
And yes what’s the question
Why do the bad guys meet all the good girls and the good guys meet all the bad girls
Hmmm that’s a good question. I do think it’s my fault essentially. Had I paid attention better and didn’t put what I was seeing above my standards, this situation wouldn’t have lasted.
That's okay you took a chance on love I don't see anything wrong with that 😉
Love should be able to afford my standards though lol onto better things though. No more life full of disappointments coming from one person
I feel you on that I sent you a follow request and he just lost a good girl that has to hurt
Evidentially he doesn’t care because he hasn’t reached out and isn’t showing much emotion toward the situation lol oh well
Wow that's shocking your a really good girl and you gorgeous. How long were you with him?
We talked for 3 months and it seemed like at one point he wanted something more and then he has been inconsistent for a while now so I’m gone
I feel you words not matching his actions. Guys have to learn same thing you did to get the woman you have to do to keep her
Be classy and provide him a respectful explanation.
Ghosting isn’t right and I know what he is doing isn’t either but two wrongs don’t make a right. Be the better person….
I would tell him. nothing worst than talking to someone and they just go quiet.
He went quiet already lol called him out and he’s lacking accountability so oh well
I should tell him that u are interested and do not ghost 👻
Just tell him once and then he should get the hint when you don't reply anymore
@kylee2437 Being upfront is better because ghosting is rude & immature.
He’s blocked now since not only when I reached out, he replied with excuses and never apologized but he also went the route of deleting me off social media. Anything to circle around accountability. My hands are now clean
Tell him. No one is considered a real mind reader... from what I know of. Plus you both have a direct answer.
I've gone through both and none of them are great.
Good with being honest. Ghosting should only be done when the guy is being an asshole or a creep
You should tell him you are ghosting him from now on
Infact ghosting is worse than gaslighting your former lovet
Honest communication is the adult way to handle things.