Have you felt unsure about your partner but stayed?

[Anonymous]

I started dating my now boyfriend at 21. I didn't really date much before him and sometimes I feel like I missed out on the whole experience. I love my boyfriend but what if we got together too young? I sometimes worry he'll get bored after some time being married (he said he's thinking of proposing soon). He was 20 when we started dating and in the past, I caught him being on tinder just to, "pass time". This was about 3 years ago and we haven't had problems since. He didn't go on any dates and we worked it out. I worry if he gets bored, he'll do it again. I saw the conversations he had with the girls and it didn't progress very far but I think that's because he doesn't have game tbh. I've gone through his phone here and there over the last few years (with his permission and he's given me his code) and haven't found anything. Maybe I'm getting cold feet now that we're close to marriage.

[Anonymous]

I have a ladyfriend who married a guy. We all said she could do better. She was attracted by his self assuredness. We told her he wasn't self assured, he was just an a**hole, there is a difference. She didn't listen, she married him. He had to always know where she was. He would drive past where she worked and grill her if ever he didn't see her car. Then 12 years later he decided to just leave her. The only that surprised me, was that it lasted that long. What kills me is how broken up she is about it. I'll never understand why women do this, that's not true I understand it because I know the way your gender thinks. But that is why you fail.

[boggboss]

No and she is the first girl I started dating properly coming up to 6 years getting ready for marriage never saw a point of wondering what I missed out if I'm happy with what I got

[Shamalien]

Such a classically male mindset that I honestly wish women had. They are always wondering if they could do better it seems

[Asker]

Probably because we have more options (in general)

[Shamalien]

Too many these days if you ask me. Too many choices often leads to poor choices, and women are making very poor choices these days

[Anonymous]

A few years after getting married, my wife was put on a couple of pharmaceuticals which caused severe delusionalism, to the point of making me consider divorce. Fortunately I decided to stay married to her, in hopes that her mental problems were just a passing phase, which they were

[AmeerX]

Don't think too much. I was also indecisive and it harms the relationship