What's the biggest red flag you ignored in a relationship?

[MendaciousMarxist]

I was on TikTok and I've seen so many people say dumb things like "All them red flags be looking green" and stuff, do people actually ignore red flags?

especially major ones? like if sumone is emotionally unstable, different political/religious beliefs, etc?

[Stevefiveo]

I can remember one time when I was young, I was driving home and a girl from another car was like hey, I like your car. Can I see the inside? She is very pretty and innocent looking so I pull over and let her in. After a minute of taking she tells me she has to go the bathroom. I say well I love like two minutes away. Her face lights up and says oh you want to take me home eh? I knew I was going to score with her. Get her home , let her pee, give her a drink of water and we start making out , she starts taking off her clothes, and then have some really intense sex. So, it should have been a red flag that she is having sex with me within five minutes of meeting me but my 21 cock is completely ignoring that. After sex, she proceeds to tell me that she has a baby, the baby daddy is a leader of a gang, she just got out of prison, she robs convince stores. And did I learn my lesson? No, I still had sex with her three more times that night. Lol but then I did finally learn my lesson a few days later, even when she came to my place drunk with her friends screaming for me. The friends are like hey open up, she wants to fuck you. She says your the best fuck she's ever had. They eventually went away and luckily I was moving in a few days so she wouldn't be able to find me again. My poor neighbors. Lol

[SnowedIn]

Couldn't/wouldn't have a conversation. I ignored that and it was a terrible crash and burn something-ship. Relationship wouldn't be a good word.

[Anonymous]

I once dated a guy in my teens. Red flag was how he was always pressuring me into premarital sex, promising he would marry me one day. He would have said and done anything to get inside my knickers. Anyway he went off with another girl but still wanted to be with me blaming me for his cheating because I wouldn't give him sex, my sister was home from college and he was getting abusive and he she chased with a hurley stick warning him never to come back. Lucky escape I think, heard a few things about him since then.

[Labokachulaa]

The way he treats his mother is how he'll treat you, I've heard this my entire life... He treated me worse. Lol but that was my fault. I saw the signs and I ignored it.

[SlavicThor]

#1. Lack of Respect.

Respect is everything for me in a relationship. If I'm not loved it doesn't matter as long as I'm respected. I'd rather be alone and not in a relationsuop than loved but disrespected

[ChiTown33]

I don't ignore red flags. I have a spidey sense. If I think there's something wrong. Invariably there is. If a woman wants you in her life, she will make the effort.

[FilmGuy93]

People absolutely ignore red flags. I ignored several with my ex because I believed she would change as a result of her therapy and self work.

[NathanDavis]

I don't ignore anything in my relationships... good, bad... all has to be addressed

[ArtemisSilver]

I've allowed a bit of unhealthy gold digging sugar baby bullshit because the sex was good.

But eventually I came to my senses, pardon the pun.

[BJP21]

The warning signs of gaslighting, mental/emotional abuse.

Nobody should ever assume control of a relationship.

[es20490446e]

Just plain mistreatment for no apparent reason.

[Juxtapose]

Lack of good faith and always assuming the worst in me was the biggest ones I ignored.

[Jennz6]

🌈 is the flag

[lalaloveee]

Asocial, poor conversation skills, shy, loser

[Jennz6]

Sounds like me, I’m a loser, no conversation skills