Why do girls usually not care at all about the guys previous ex girlfriend (picture is a screenshot of what his new girlfriend told my friend)?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

When a guy took my girlfriend, the dude was super chill with me. He was like “hey, I wish you best of luck in your future.” I was pretty hurt but it made me feel better because he was a nice and cool guy so it helped me move on but girls on the other hand!! I’ve seen this time and time again. This girl hurt my friend. Ughhhhh she went after her body type and I’m
Not even gonna blur out their faces but only their names

[NathanDavis]

according to what she said in Spanish...

this is telenovela 101

--first girl does not appreciate the guy, so they end up in bad terms

-first girl regrets her bad choices or bad doing, and decides to call the guy, even if she knows he already has another girlfriend, girl two

--first girl still calls the guy and the new girlfriend girl two, answers his phone

-girl two, becomes not only territorial but also protective and then goes on to tell the first girl

stop calling, you already did wrong to him... now I am with him and I do appreciate him as he is, unlike you, you ungrateful slim lady

Spanish intensifies...

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Lmao

[Aletheia223]

This guy gets it 👏

[AmeerX]

Bravo, the second girls got the point 👀

[Anonymous]

Girls compete with one another all the time. For their partners and for their standing in their community.
Guys typically don't want to fight because it ultimately does not benefit them. They are both independent, no honour is involved, and their goals are not in conflict.

[AmeerX]

I never realized it but I think you are true

[Graci_e]

Thats a bit psycho. My boyfriends ex is a bit of a stalker and is constantly trying to contact him (he has her blocked on everything) and shows up at his house, it's been happening for months. I trust him and I'm not concerned, but it's hard for him to handle. She rings his mum late at night, gets her friends to message him, she tried to followed my brother, she shows up at his house, drives past his house with her mum, follows him home from school, etc..

It's fricking crazy and not always very comfortable for me. But I would never, ever send a message like that. That just reaks of insecurity and it's super cringy haha

[AmeerX]

You are 16? How is that possible 🙄

[Graci_e]

@AmeerX what do you mean?

[AmeerX]

I meant how did you get a boyfriend at your age

[Graci_e]

@AmeerX That’s normal where I’m from and pretty easy

[AmeerX]

Oh cool.

[Anonymous]

So to be clear, your friend had a conversation with her ex’s new girlfriend, and this is how she spoke to your friend? If that’s the case, maybe her words were harsh but the message was clear: back off. It’s cool if you can find closure from the man who took your girlfriend from you, but not everyone is going to “feel good” from that, not even men. Personally I don’t care to waste time having a conversation with my boyfriends ex, but some people take that as extreme disrespect.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

This was said back in July and words hurt. She is still thinking about all of this.
What happened with me was I didn’t know she had a new boyfriend so I called and he answered I was like who are you bro lol but the guy was respectful to me. He didn’t intend to cause trauma to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Words definitely do hurt, and that’s why I said the woman in the text was harsh. The thing is, people aren’t entitled to the kindness of their ex’s new person. Personally my response would be like your ex’s new boyfriend, because maybe people like your friend didn’t realize their ex is with someone new and missed them, I know that happens. However some people get offended by these things and automatically get defensive and mean. How did that conversation come up? What had your friend said?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I didn’t ask her. She removed/deleted her responses. I just felt like it didn’t matter what she said because her responses were so cruel.

[Opinion Owner]

I think it’s important to get both sides of the story here. From my perspective, don’t you find it a bit odd? It goes without doubt that the woman was cruel, but do you truly believe it was completely unprovoked? Otherwise, why would your friend delete all her own responses? That woman sent texts back to back, almost as in defense to something that was said. So I’m not saying she’s right, her words were cruel. But without the context from your friend, it appears as though she deleted what she had said in order to victimize herself or make that woman look absolutely crazy, which is not a fair way to share information.

[Opinion Owner]

The moment i saw that picture, I immediately wondered what was said to invite such a harsh reaction, so for there to be no context beforehand, it’s very suspicious of your friend. Even if you feel like she wouldn’t do that, she’s very nice, etc etc, if that were the case then she wouldn’t have anything to hide, right?

[Anonymous]

Women look at a mans future and men look at a womans past

[Anonymous]

Looks like ghetto problems, to be honest.

[LavLavLuv]

Wth😀