My boyfriend suddenly told me he doesn't need my love and doesn't need me. What should I do? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2023-01-02T07:06:14Z

I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend whom I met online. We haven't met in real life as we started dating right before Covid. As a long distance relationship couple, we are often in call when we are both free every night. Tonight, we were on call while playing a game with him and out of nowhere he suddenly said "I don't need your love and I don't need you" with a serious voice. I replied to him "Okay you are free to go" and it was just silence. We continued to play our game while on call, I asked him "Why are you still with me if you don't need my love or need me?" He replied "You know why I'm with you" I told him "I don't know" and it was silence again. I asked again "If you don't need my love and don't need me, why are you with me?" Now he is saying that he never said that and why am I lying. I started to sob and he asked if I'm crying, I stayed silent and tried to keep myself from crying. He didn't say anything, no sorry, no "I didn't mean to say that" or "I didn't mean to make you cry". After I had composed my self, I asked him if we should break up because he said those statements, he said he needs my love and needs me. Still no sorry, I told him maybe we are better off without each other. He said he was "just joking and didn't mean it", although we do joke with each other a lot, this is the first time he said something like this. I told him he is free to go, he said sorry again but it didn't felt heartfelt. We stayed silent on call for an hour until I decided to turn it off. I told him Good night on chat but no response from him or anything, he haven't messaged me or ask if I'm okay. We've been together for almost 3 years, is it time to go?

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Dump him, obviously. Men are a dime-a-dozen. You can do better.

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step dack a bit and wait for him to come round

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Yell at him talk to him after

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He is tired of your shit. Move on.

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This coward can't even break up with you.

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Time to leave immediately

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Dump him and move on to better things.

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It is time to go.

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Find a new boyfriend

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